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Could've been a ginger, I think without a soul you only count as .2 people.is the .2 person really small?
Worry more about yourself. And like others have said: mind your own business.One of my friends really wants to become a doctor, but I don't think she has a chance (ORM, 3.2ish GPA in her junior year at a low ranked university, little to no ECs).
She comes from a low SES (and for some reason her family refuses to apply for gov't aid. Real shady, I know.), so she doesn't have much option to push back applying for 2 years, which I assume would be how long she would need to get an app together.
I just don't want her to waste her money on MCAT stuff (books, classes, tests).
I don't mean to come off condescending, but nobody I know has been able to give me a good answer haha.
How do you justify making the connection to a dying patient?! Like others have said, the friend does have a chance at do school. Encouragement is fine but op is not an adcom and has no right to tell others they have no chance at med schools
That's not a doctor like quality.... You need to show support and motivation, and promote change.
OP as a doctor: You have an A1C of 11. You have no chance of getting to 6.5 (# recommended by the ADA) given your past history. You will likely die early of a diabetic complication. It's better to accept this rather than live in denial.
How OP should be: Your A1C is 11. It's going to be a challenge and you may not ever get it low enough to completely eliminate your risk of complications due to diabetes, but here's some things that you can do to lower that number and decrease (not eliminate) your risk of diabetic complications...
No. Sometimes being a doctor you need to be forthright and harsh with some of your patients. All too often we coddle our patients because of the stupid "patient satisfaction" matrix built into the system by idiot hospital administrators. Despite what the common party line these days say, you do know better than them. Obviously work with them in their decision but immediately acquiescing to their every whim and want is not just stupid but a huge waste and strain on the system.
I understand the point you're trying to make. But if we're talking about "no hope" examples I would use a trauma patient in the ICU who is brain dead and will require a trach and PEG to continue living and a family that refuses to understand the situation. In that particular case you should NOT be telling them that their loved one is going to return to normal at some point and that the ethical thing to do is to do comfort care. And for these situations it's often best to be as blunt and honest as possible since they'll pick up and hang on every little doubt you present.
I think we can all agree that based on OP's example that the person they're trying to counsel is not without hope, only needs to readjust their expectations, effort, and activities. They are not metaphorically brain dead in their medical school dreams.
Wow, you make a lot of assumptions. How about you don't tell her anything because you are too black and white with too little justification.One of my friends really wants to become a doctor, but I don't think she has a chance (ORM, 3.2ish GPA in her junior year at a low ranked university, little to no ECs).
She comes from a low SES (and for some reason her family refuses to apply for gov't aid. Real shady, I know.), so she doesn't have much option to push back applying for 2 years, which I assume would be how long she would need to get an app together.
I just don't want her to waste her money on MCAT stuff (books, classes, tests).
I don't mean to come off condescending, but nobody I know has been able to give me a good answer haha.
Chill man. We go to the same university. I only pointed that out since there's a few users here who believe that 3.2 is decent for a top school lmao.Maybe you shouldn't be such a pretentious **** friend? Who are you to say she has no chance? She was a 3.2 not a 2.2, she could be competitive for DO school if she had some guidance instead of some "friend" calling her shady and coming from a "low ranked university".
I'm coming from a very low ranked university and I have an interview invite at a top 10 school right now - so clearly that isn't all that important.
dude it's her life... leave her aloneThis thread went way further than I expected.
Chill man. We go to the same university. I only pointed that out since there's a few users here who believe that 3.2 is decent for a top school lmao.
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I was being harsh;I just laid out only the negatives because I figured the usual cynicism of the board would ignore any positives I have to say about her.
Honestly, I'm just afraid of the possibility that she'll come out of undergrad with a useless B.S. degree and not much prospects for a life forward.
(Before you bring up research either academic or industry, she refuses to work in a lab)
It is none of my business, I guess.... but there's a good chance that she won't even follow through with an improvement plan, given my past experiences with her.
I don't know what I could do to support her other than to turn her in a direction that I think may be more feasible.
She's a great person. All I want is for her to be happy.
SDN we crush dreams every 2 threads ..
One of my friends really wants to become a doctor, but I don't think she has a chance (ORM, 3.2ish GPA in her junior year at a low ranked university, little to no ECs).
She comes from a low SES (and for some reason her family refuses to apply for gov't aid. Real shady, I know.), so she doesn't have much option to push back applying for 2 years, which I assume would be how long she would need to get an app together.
I just don't want her to waste her money on MCAT stuff (books, classes, tests).
I don't mean to come off condescending, but nobody I know has been able to give me a good answer haha.
I'm not even sure they are limited to just DO...there are plenty of MD schools who would be happy to have her if sheOP, what does it matter if she's low SES? You can crush your MCAT without fancy expensive classes, you know... and a 3.2 will definitely not keep you out of DO if you have a good story.
Exactly...the majority of the descriptors given in the OP apply to me as well, yet my MD cycle is shaping up quite well so far!I'm not even sure they are limited to just DO...there are plenty of MD schools who would be happy to have her if she
A. Writes a killer PS
B. Steps up EC's
C. Kills the MCAT
Of course, all that is easier said than done but you get my point. OP, I encourage you to encourage your friend to keep at it. And as someone else suggested, do your best to help her salvage this, not find a way out.
One of my friends really wants to become a doctor, but I don't think she has a chance (ORM, 3.2ish GPA in her junior year at a low ranked university, little to no ECs).
She comes from a low SES (and for some reason her family refuses to apply for gov't aid. Real shady, I know.), so she doesn't have much option to push back applying for 2 years, which I assume would be how long she would need to get an app together.
I just don't want her to waste her money on MCAT stuff (books, classes, tests).
I don't mean to come off condescending, but nobody I know has been able to give me a good answer haha.
That is awesome! Good to hear for youExactly...the majority of the descriptors given in the OP apply to me as well, yet my MD cycle is shaping up quite well so far!
One of my friends really wants to become a doctor, but I don't think she has a chance (ORM, 3.2ish GPA in her junior year at a low ranked university, little to no ECs).
She comes from a low SES (and for some reason her family refuses to apply for gov't aid. Real shady, I know.), so she doesn't have much option to push back applying for 2 years, which I assume would be how long she would need to get an app together.
I just don't want her to waste her money on MCAT stuff (books, classes, tests).
I don't mean to come off condescending, but nobody I know has been able to give me a good answer haha.
What about letting the admissions committees crush her dreams instead. Let it come from the horse's mouth if it's really not meant to be.
Whatever happened to "first, do no harm?"