1. How do you find the "right" major? Take a survey wheel of sorts?
This is something that a lot of students worry about. As someone who has gone through it, don't stress about it! First semester, pick classes that interest you. And I'm going to give you some advice I wish someone had given me: when you're signing up for classes, search for every professor you're considering taking on ratemyprofessor.com. My GPA went up drastically after I learned about that website. You simply must screen your professors! I thought philosophy (medical ethics) would be extremely boring but I had an amazing professor who motivated me and made me want to do well. So find out what you can get excellent grades in and interests you. Just remember to do your medical school prerequisites and I will explain that more below.
2. How is the workload from doing a major and preparing for medical school? It feels like taking all the Engineer (as an example) and PreMed courses would be hell... and then there's shadowing, internships, research, volunteering, all on top of that. How do you fit it all in?
My personal opinion would be: only pick engineering if you know you can get really high grades in it. Some people I consider geniuses had a hard time getting good grades as an engineering major (for example, everyone in their engineering class would get ~90% on the test so the teacher would say "that means 90 is AVERAGE"). Plus, at my school, the engineering program was set up so there was no room for electives.
Also at my school, they had PDF files for each major and the exact list of prerequisites, core classes, and electives options. I'm sure most schools have something like this.
Start researching the medical schools you want to go to now. I think that's the best advice anyone could have given to me at your point. They will have an outline of the requirements they want in their website. Print these out! Keep them in a safe place and check off everything as you go.
My dream school's prerequisites:
- two semesters of each: biology, physics, English, inorganic chemistry, and organic chemistry (all with labs)
-one semester biochemistry
Note: most schools have very similar prerequisites to these!
Also, check the student profile (if available) of the most recently admitted med students. That will give you a general idea of the GPA (science and overall) and MCAT scores they are looking for.
Research: start looking into it EARLY. Go on your school website and look through different departments. My school had information about the research each professor was involved in. Send out e-mails to the professors you think you would like to work with and ask them for an interview.
Internship: this is the only thing that I felt like was "too much." I regret doing my internship while taking other classes. Shadowing and volunteering can be more relaxed because you can spread them out during your 4 years. My internship had to be completed in one semester and I took 18 credit hours of classes on top of that. I somehow managed to make it through but it was NOT FUN. I would recommend taking your internship during the summer between junior and senior year with 0 other classes or at most, 1 other class.
As for everything else, just create a schedule. And always remember to have time set aside to relax