what aPD said, but did you think that maybe she is lying? she knows you are looking to match in the same specialty, at your home institution...and while post interview communication is frowned upon, its not actually a match violation...and the program and applicants can say anything they want to each other, but can't ask specific questions such as where on your list did you rank me/us.
ROL are in...its spilt milk...worrying about it isn't going to change anything.