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Hi-
I haven't posted much on here but I am really worried right now and am hoping that maybe someone in the forum can give me advice if you've been through it. My husband is finishing his second year and studying for the USMLE Step 1 and he is FREAKING out. He is very worried about getting a good enough score to not taint him forever in getting a residency and it is causing him to lose sleep and not to study well which just makes it worse. I just don't really know what to say to him because I couldn't even image taking such a horrific test (i am just an entry level chemist). He is starting to question if he even wants to be a doctor, but he doesn't think he can quit because we have too much debt now! I just don't know what to do because he is making himself physically ill by worrying so much (a possible stomach ulcer and VERY high blood pressure/heart rate all the time). Does it get better? Or is he going to be like this for the next 6 years? I don't think he is cut out for this kind of intense competition. Does anyone know what happens if you drop out of med school halfway through? are there other options that you can sort of transfer into that will not make these first two years a complete waste??? I would appreciate any ideas and advice, I am just REALLY worried about him.
Thanks!
I haven't posted much on here but I am really worried right now and am hoping that maybe someone in the forum can give me advice if you've been through it. My husband is finishing his second year and studying for the USMLE Step 1 and he is FREAKING out. He is very worried about getting a good enough score to not taint him forever in getting a residency and it is causing him to lose sleep and not to study well which just makes it worse. I just don't really know what to say to him because I couldn't even image taking such a horrific test (i am just an entry level chemist). He is starting to question if he even wants to be a doctor, but he doesn't think he can quit because we have too much debt now! I just don't know what to do because he is making himself physically ill by worrying so much (a possible stomach ulcer and VERY high blood pressure/heart rate all the time). Does it get better? Or is he going to be like this for the next 6 years? I don't think he is cut out for this kind of intense competition. Does anyone know what happens if you drop out of med school halfway through? are there other options that you can sort of transfer into that will not make these first two years a complete waste??? I would appreciate any ideas and advice, I am just REALLY worried about him.
Thanks!