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Maybe you should have spent all that time focused on the lab instead of trolling SDN?damn extreme stalking dude
also i was trolling there like mad months ago lol
people are different IRL and online
maybeMaybe you should have spent all that time focused on the lab instead of trolling SDN?
I missed the mandatory Undergraduate Poster session last semester because I had food poisoning. I just asked my professor if I could continue this semester, and he said no. I was in that lab for 8 months, and am supposed to apply to med school this summer. What do I do? I'm trying my best to get another research position, but that will only be ~3 months of research by the time I apply. Not even sure if I'll get one.
And got a ton of patients sick? I understand it's part of the culture, but it's not really something to be proud of.
?Easy to say for someone who's barely even started the process. Ever thought that these shifts are predetermined and it would be very hard to get someone to cover? So you let your colleagues just pick up the slack for you? Here's a little tip when you start residency. Don't call in sick. Come in and if you are that bad, they'll send you home.
Wear a mask and wash your hands.And got a ton of patients sick? I understand it's part of the culture, but it's not really something to be proud of.
I don't know how puking and pooping makes someone "combat ineffective" in medicine. I mean it's not like I blew my hand off or something. The reason I used that analogy is that was what the OP had said kept them from their presentation. My point was that in this field sometimes you have to power through and work because when you're done with residency (like I am), there is no backup. It's just you. So while you might not need 1 resident in a team of 7, you need the one attending in the team of one attending.I said I understand it's part of the culture, but I notice not one section of your reply talked about how being puking/diarrhea sick effects your patients.
I might have just started the process but I have a bit of experience working in teams in high risk situations. Guys who tried to push themselves when they were hurt or too sick put the whole squad in danger; and more importantly compromised the mission. "Manning up" because you're afraid of how others will perceive you or through some sort of delusion that you are irreplaceable (what will we ever do without the puking/****ting resident??) even when you're combat ineffective is the worst kind of selfishness. I spent 5 years fighting that attitude in Soldiers. What's even worse than a malingerer with the sniffles? A guy who is too proud to admit when he needs to take a knee.
I missed the mandatory Undergraduate Poster session last semester because I had food poisoning. I just asked my professor if I could continue this semester, and he said no. I was in that lab for 8 months, and am supposed to apply to med school this summer. What do I do? I'm trying my best to get another research position, but that will only be ~3 months of research by the time I apply. Not even sure if I'll get one.
I doubt OP is telling the whole story. I'm guessing the "missed poster session" has much more background. My vote is that OP never made the poster, so the PI was pissed off because the PI knew OP blew it off. The PI probably knew OP wasn't doing any work and made up some BS excuse. That is the only reason I can think of that a professor would just kick someone out of lab.
No hard feelings OP - but no pity for you from me.
I didn't ask for pity, I asked for advice. I've stated multiple times that it was my mistake and mine alone. And for the record, I did indeed make the poster, I just didn't attend the presentation. Not that you'd be convinced by me saying so, your mind is clearly made up.I doubt OP is telling the whole story. I'm guessing the "missed poster session" has much more background. My vote is that OP never made the poster, so the PI was pissed off because the PI knew OP blew it off. The PI probably knew OP wasn't doing any work and made up some BS excuse. That is the only reason I can think of that a professor would just kick someone out of lab.
No hard feelings OP - but no pity for you from me.
Maybe, I don't know.Likely the PI wanted to get rid of OP and this presented a reasonable excuse.
It makes you ineffective because you're putting your patients at risk by exposing them to illness and, in all likelihood, not being anywhere close to your best mentally.
You're right, it's not the military and it's just a job. That's why you should just call one of your fellow attendings to cover. I promise they'll be sick sometime too and you can pay them back. I get that's it isn't easy, can make people think you're "weak", and inconveniences others but you can't honestly argue that it isn't the right thing to do.
From the Times:
"Hacking, febrile or racked with the sequelae of chronic illnesses, doctors who are sick have continued for generations to see their patients. Although published reports for over a decade have linked patient illnesses like the flu, whooping cough and resistant bacterial infections to sick health care workers, as many as 80 percent of physicians continue to work through their own ailments, even though they would have excused patients in the same condition."
"Now, a report in the current issue of The Journal of General Internal Medicine examines the impact of sick workers in health care. Anchoring their analysis with a description of a nursing home outbreak of norovirus gastroenteritis, an infection that causes nausea, vomiting and diarrhea, researchers from the University of California, San Francisco, address an issue that goes beyond the business school matter of worker productivity. They argue that in the health care setting what is important is that the decision to continue working while sick contradicts a core ethical principle of medicine: primum non nocere, or “First, do no harm.”
“The culture of medicine is so completely focused on self-sacrifice that when doctors come into work so sick they need intravenous fluids, it’s considered a badge of courage,” said Dr. Eric Widera, the study’s lead author and an assistant professor of geriatrics at the University of California, San Francisco. “No one is standing up for the patient and saying, ‘This is wrong.’ ”
Initially the nursing home infection described by Dr. Widera and his co-authors affected only one staff member and three patients. But over the course of less than two weeks it spread to an additional 22 staff members and 30 patients despite restrictive — but voluntary — measures like stricter hand hygiene and disinfecting procedures, limiting visitors, closing down the dining hall and suspending group activities and outings. Only after the local health department required sick employees to be medically cleared before returning to work was the outbreak finally controlled."
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/14/health/views/14chen.html?_r=0
I understand it's part of the culture (and I've said that multiple times), but it's a terrible, unsafe, and toxic culture that the next generation of doctors should try to change.
Thats cute.
You come to work as a resident even if that means your intestine falls out on the or floor.
This is the kind of culture where we tell our patients to get plenty of rest and eat halthy while pulling 24hour shifts and eat pizza.
Love how you threw that military ref in there.Incredible response. I loved a lot of things about my time in the military and overseas, but the dumb meathead mentality that put other people at risk was not one of them.
**** the patients but at least you're a real big MAN, right?
Dude, take a chill pill and realize that you're old with an outdated mentality. My generation don't think puking, pooping and having your intestine "fall out" are badass and indications of responsibility...in fact we think the opposite. Like it or not the old timers of medicine are on their way to the exit door soon and the culture of medicine will in inevitably change in the future with the next crop of physicians. We will likely look back and laugh at how crazy you guys are for doing such things.Love how you threw that military ref in there.
Just dont be the whiny med student on the floor, ok? If you want a cush lifestyle specialty, go for it, but dont be that med student who wants to change things when surgeons are working their butts off.
Thanks for actually giving me some advice.Anyway, let's return back to the topic at hand.
OP, I agree with the others. You can list it and don't use him as a reference. That does seem a bit much, unless you just no showed without telling anyone. It sounds like there was something else going on (whether you were aware of it or not) and that was just the last straw for him. Or a million other things. But in any case this would be a very risky person to get a letter from.
As for whether you should start in a new lab, depends on your goals. Do you want to do research/go to a research heavy school? Then trying to get more research would be good, you might only have 3 mos by app time but it would be more by the time you'd potentially interview. If not, maybe just cut your losses and find something else to do.
Dude, take a chill pill and realize that you're old with an outdated mentality. My generation don't think puking, pooping and having your intestine "fall out" are badass and indications of responsibility...in fact we think the opposite. Like it or not the old timers of medicine are on their way to the exit door soon and the culture of medicine will in inevitably change in the future with the next crop of physicians. We will likely look back and laugh at how crazy you guys are for doing such things.