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Hi Everyone, first time user here. A little about me. I was accepted to St. George's School of Medicine back in 2003. I took a leave of absence and never returned due to my diagnoses of Bipolar II and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I think its hard to explain what you go through with those illnesses unless you experience them first hand. When I took my leave of absence, I only was in for 4 weeks and didnt take any tests, I just knew something was seriously wrong with me and I was paying with private loans using a co-signer and couldnt risk staying. Let me add before I was diagnosed with Bipolar II and GAD I was very healthy and never never had a health problem. I also never had to rely on anyone. When I moved back to the US, I felt like a loser, like a failure and didnt know what was wrong with me and my family is the type that doesnt believe in mental health problems and steps on you when your down and takes credit when you succeed (cultural I guess). Here is the problem, I been on and off with pychiatry because I havent found success in the medications, I was put on pretty much all SSRIs you can think of, all anxiety meds, and most bipolar ones except lithium which I dont want to take because of all the blood testing frequency. So my health isnt a 100%, my anxiety is very high and gets agitated very easily with severe physical effects such as tightness of all musles, heart palpations, cold chills, tremors, etc... Also I am not sure if its because of my Bipolar or anxiety but I am always unsure of myself and my decisions, any decision I make I think is the wrong one, I am always indecessive, I always obsess about the stupidest things and the smallest things make me panic. I cant focus because of these obsessive thoughts, lack of sleep, and always being jittery and agitated, so ofcourse I need to venture into more crap treatment or hope for a mircale. My life has been hell to say the least since I left medical school, espeically because I had to move in back with my father who was a big source of my mental illness as a child (long story, every type of abuse you can think of, verbal, mental, watching mother almost beat to death, etc...) Now I finally have a friend who gave me the opportunity to live with him for free because he said that I will never get better living with my dad with the illness, I only did so for a lack of options and being too embarrassed to let any of my friends know of my illness. Now I finally feel free, I am going back to treatment, still feel like crap and still trying to pinpoint my illness, is it really BipolarII if so why hasnt it responded to treatment, can my GAD ever get under control, is my lack of concentration due to the Bipolar or ADHD or OCD, things that I still need to get answered and every pychiatrist seems to have a different educated guess. It doesnt help that you cant pick the cream of the crop for treatment because I have no medical benefits, never declared disability(wish i did for 6 years I was disabled, too late now). So now I am broke, living with my best friend and trying to get a fresh start.
My stats:
Top private, 3.2 Biology, expired 25MCAT by now. And ofcourse leave of absence from SGU from years ago.
My first step is employment that pays good to cover insurance and pay all the debt I incurred due to this illness, do I stay in the state I am in, the midwest, or do I ship to say Florida because it has alot of seats and gives me the best chance to be a future student?
What kind of job should I try to get with my stats, I am so lost and so need the money that pays more than research and has good insurance.
Am I never going to get better, I am too scared, part of the illness to take risks since I cant trust my mental health or thought process not to panic and lose it, should I just drop the whole medical school idea and just be realistic and go to a different profession that is less demanding in grad school but pays good enough to raise a family and pay off all my debts like a JD or a MHA?
Where do I start after the Job which I will love advice on what to get the job in, do I take more classes I cant afford, do I just take the MCAT and kill it or do I just call SGU and beg them to take me back (going back to SGU is tough option since I dont want a cosigner for loans and only US schools give more options for this so I would like to get educated in the US, I also really want to consider MD only due to the fact that I want to practice internationally and help all over the world with less limitations. I know its going to be harder with my stats, but is it impossible?
Do I just find any job locally or do I take advantage of not being in a contract or paying rent and just pick up and move to a place like Florida where I can just start fresh, establish residency and say if medical school didnt work due to my non improved health I can go for a JD or MHA and will still have great in state tuition for these programs at great statewide schools?
Do any of you have experienced extremes of my symptoms that you care to pm me about to let me know what worked or didnt work for you and what my chances of stabilization are, how it is coping taking such medications while in med school, is it even feasible, how does it effect your record for residency and beyond? I was hospitalized once for 10 days by choice because one of my new meds Geodon just drove me off the wall.
Sorry for the long post, I have so much steam and pain and had so much to vent, thank you all for listening and for responding. I truely appreciate it...
My stats:
Top private, 3.2 Biology, expired 25MCAT by now. And ofcourse leave of absence from SGU from years ago.
My first step is employment that pays good to cover insurance and pay all the debt I incurred due to this illness, do I stay in the state I am in, the midwest, or do I ship to say Florida because it has alot of seats and gives me the best chance to be a future student?
What kind of job should I try to get with my stats, I am so lost and so need the money that pays more than research and has good insurance.
Am I never going to get better, I am too scared, part of the illness to take risks since I cant trust my mental health or thought process not to panic and lose it, should I just drop the whole medical school idea and just be realistic and go to a different profession that is less demanding in grad school but pays good enough to raise a family and pay off all my debts like a JD or a MHA?
Where do I start after the Job which I will love advice on what to get the job in, do I take more classes I cant afford, do I just take the MCAT and kill it or do I just call SGU and beg them to take me back (going back to SGU is tough option since I dont want a cosigner for loans and only US schools give more options for this so I would like to get educated in the US, I also really want to consider MD only due to the fact that I want to practice internationally and help all over the world with less limitations. I know its going to be harder with my stats, but is it impossible?
Do I just find any job locally or do I take advantage of not being in a contract or paying rent and just pick up and move to a place like Florida where I can just start fresh, establish residency and say if medical school didnt work due to my non improved health I can go for a JD or MHA and will still have great in state tuition for these programs at great statewide schools?
Do any of you have experienced extremes of my symptoms that you care to pm me about to let me know what worked or didnt work for you and what my chances of stabilization are, how it is coping taking such medications while in med school, is it even feasible, how does it effect your record for residency and beyond? I was hospitalized once for 10 days by choice because one of my new meds Geodon just drove me off the wall.
Sorry for the long post, I have so much steam and pain and had so much to vent, thank you all for listening and for responding. I truely appreciate it...