As someone who has spent the last few months trying to extricate the prestige factor from the decision making process, I can tell you, as most doctors will, that in the end, it does not matter. I went to an Ivy undergrad and puff my chest out everytime someone asks about it. I feel superior - for about 2 seconds. Then it's back to normal. They probably think I'm hot **** - for about 2 seconds, and then I continue talking and they face turns sour
Kidding, kind of. I've was waitlisted at all the top schools I interviewed at - UMich, Columbia, Cornell, Sinai, U.Roch. (And the fact that I just listed them by rank is a complete coincidence - I honestly had no intention of doing that). I wrote a letter of interest to Cornell and Columbia. Now that it's almost May and the waitlist is about to move, I thought I should up the ante by writing a letter of intent to one of these schools. But you know what - I don't really want to go to any of them. Yeah, I think NYC is the best place on Earth. These schools will DEFINITELY give me a leg up in matching. If I wanted to go into research, it would be better to pick a Prestigious U. But I'm just going to do the clinical thing, so my State School, which will save me $100,000 and keep me out of trouble (trouble being NYC, *sigh*), seemed to be the best choice. The gloating privileges certainly aren't worth giving that up. Besides, I can redeem my right to boast when I land that neurosurgery residency at Columbia
One last point, which is easy to miss when your head is a mile up your ass (believe me, I've been there), is that getting into a US medical school is a feat in itself. Yeah, there's a lot of people on SDN that love to post things like, "Should I choose Johns Hopkins, Harvard, or Stanford? Oh, woe is me." But there's also people that post how f--ked they are because they didn't get a single interview, let alone acceptance. I know somebody who's been through the process twice with no success. Not to say you should reference these individuals to pump yourself up, but take pride in your acheivement. My dad grew up in a village and managed to earn a seat at medical school in India. The competition there is ten times worse, especially when all odds are against you. But here, his success is barely recognized because foreign medical schools do not carry the same weight. In fact, as soon as people note he's an FMG, they don't even bother asking what medical school he attended. Anyway, my point is, he's the chief of his department and manager of his group practice in one of the most difficult specialties (anesthesiology). If he can make it without the backing of a prestigious US medical school, so can you.
Sorry I got carried away, but I'm still high on inspiration since I decided on attending my state school just yesterday
I hope this helps.