So I've finished my Obs/gyn, i'm not even slightly interested in it but i'm heavily interested in surgery, he asked me what I want to do, I said i'm 100% orthopedics but of course give the disclaimer that i'd love to learn as many surgical skills as possible, he likes me we get along he gets my number and now messages me whenever he has any surgeries - hysterectomies, cesarean, fibroids etc. So I've been going in all the time whenever I have free time and picking up and practicing as much as I can - I even got to solo close a patient once as a 'trial'. So all of this is in my free time now.
I feel like he is trying to groom me for obs/gyn but I really just want to learn all the knots, procedural basics - ligation, cauterization, how to approach a surgery etc. Which he is teaching me but my question is how can I slowly and politely get away from obs/gyn and ask to watch/learn from other surgical specialties without offending him (he's very arrogant and cocky but in a good way and extremely good at what he does, one of the top in the country)
So any tips/stories on how you've managed to for lack of a better word 'escape' a situation like this, I want to learn as much as I can from him and definitely don't want to lose him but I also want to experience and fully commit to orthopedics and watch/learn from any other surgeries I can just to see how they approach things - i'll ask if I can watch the other surgeries going on once he's finished with his schedule.
Just to make it clear, this is all in my free time, I would never want to skip out on what the school has timetabled for me. I just want to cut down my number of hours specifically with him and get a broader range of experience without losing him completely because he truly has been amazing and I've learnt so much.
Advice appreciated.
I feel like he is trying to groom me for obs/gyn but I really just want to learn all the knots, procedural basics - ligation, cauterization, how to approach a surgery etc. Which he is teaching me but my question is how can I slowly and politely get away from obs/gyn and ask to watch/learn from other surgical specialties without offending him (he's very arrogant and cocky but in a good way and extremely good at what he does, one of the top in the country)
So any tips/stories on how you've managed to for lack of a better word 'escape' a situation like this, I want to learn as much as I can from him and definitely don't want to lose him but I also want to experience and fully commit to orthopedics and watch/learn from any other surgeries I can just to see how they approach things - i'll ask if I can watch the other surgeries going on once he's finished with his schedule.
Just to make it clear, this is all in my free time, I would never want to skip out on what the school has timetabled for me. I just want to cut down my number of hours specifically with him and get a broader range of experience without losing him completely because he truly has been amazing and I've learnt so much.
Advice appreciated.
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