If you have the money, you have the money, imo.
I know that there are income allowances (something like 6000K for single person) - no expected contributions from income up to 6K/yr. And, there are also asset allowances, i.e., not expected to contribute from assets up to a certain amount.
http://www.fafsa.com/downloads/EFC/6-17-04 Federal Register with FM tables for 05-06.pdf
click this, a few pages in, read carefully - you probably want independent, married or independent, married with your own dependents depending on your situation.
Asset protection is really low - a few grand, depending on age. You would be expected to contribute (it seems to me) a majority of it.
Some things to consider - money is retirement accounts are protected. "Spend" some of it b4 Fafsa would help - spend it on something that can be "reconverted to cash", or a non-depreciating asset. E.G., you could buy gold bullion and throw it in a safe deposit box - don't have to report the purchase or sale to anyone, but TECHNICALLY would still be considered an asset for FAFSA (even though it is hard asset in a box). Pre-pay rent or other expenses (cell phones, car payments, cable, phone)? Probably get cheaper rate, but risks associated. Just thinking out loud. Hard to make 44K disappear, but prepayment could legally get a chunk out of your hands. The monthly "savings" resulting can more easily be "saved" for future uses you mentioned w/o running into problems next fafsa cylce.
Or why not buy real estate to live in now (depends on location, of course). Not ideal i guess, but maybe good idea for a couple of years until you're ready for your "real home".
Hope it helps to help you think about stuff. You probably should talk to professional - probably worth the coupls of hundred bucks for consult. Whatever you do, I would think the goal is to contribute zero now and go full loans.