I have a strong reaction to the idea that it's okay for an able bodied person to willfully disable themselves and force others to support them. Such and individual has committed a great act of coercion against every single member of society.
Humans are sacred and we will value and care for all of them no matter what. We can still condemn and rebuke those who exploit this fact, and their enablers.
This is well chosen by the above posters as an example of why treating subjective suffering as the primary therapeutic target is wrong. We help restore normal function as far as possible first and foremost, providing relief of suffering only when this does not conflict with the first directive.
I firmly believe this is why benzodiazepines so often are the wrong choice.
This may seem harsh on the face of it, but it is respectful of the human person and can be done with patience and kindness. Alleviating suffering at the cost of the patient's human potential is cruel, at best.
Omg, the idea that the secondary gain of "being supported by others" could ever explain someone *blinding* themselves? You think they did that because of how much easier it made their life?
You think the average person on social security disability is just having a huge party rolling around in all that money?
It is nearly always better to have your body function to the point you can work a full time job, just about any job, in this country.
I guess someone could think they're taking the easy way out to like, shoot themselves in both legs to get them amputated so they can auto-qualify, but I can guarantee you that person will be missing those feet and find ss disability payments a very poor compensation for them after the fact. Someone might go into it thinking it is a good idea maybe, but most do not or will not like it.
I reject this. The average person on disability actually feels awful, wishes they weren't the way they are, and wishes they could work. There are exceptions I'm sure.
So when I hear about this guy, I'm not saying "Oh woe is me my taxes are supporting them" (when in truth a fair amount of taxes pay for golf and killing people and other bull**** as well), I'm thinking to myself, how much does a person have to be suffering to give up sight and an independent life earning money to decide to pour ****ing acid on their corneas and live off the wealth of SS?
Seriously, how much money could I give you to have your eyes destroyed with acid? Say there is some amount. Are you sure that's equal to $840-3345 a month cash to live on? Say you get $440 in HUD, $169 foodstamps, $60 energy assistance, $15 phone, and free medical. Do you truly think anyone WELL makes that kind of choice??
This individual is clearly unwell. As such, I don't begrudge them. Consider that if they had been born in hunter-gatherer times, had the same illness, managed the same thing blinding themselves, (let's say no one knows they did it on purpose, I can't to speak to those values, but blindness before the modern era was exceptionally common as was old age, and evidence and examples from today suggest it's NO BIG DEAL for blind people to be supported in these societies), the rest of us would just spend an extra 5 min collecting that many more foodstuffs and it's no big deal.
It's a big deal now for us to care for our disabled members. I mean, I can't play as much golf if I have to pay more taxes or work. It's fine, it might even be legit that it's a burden for society, but before we get righteous about that, let's just rememeber that that too, is just as much of our making as a society of humans, as it was for the dude to blind himself. We have changed things enormously that now disability of many kinds is this huge burden on society.
No, I don't think he did it for secondary gain. He was suffering more as a sighted person than he is an impoverished blind one. That's profound, to me. This person didn't ask for the BIID. And it's only by the way we've structured modern existence that such a person is such a "burden." If we lived as we once did, it wouldn't matter very much in many socieities. Or maybe he would have had to wander off into the woods to die in some, I don't know. My point is that if we are not going to hold ourselves responsible for a world that can no longer support illness, then I fail to see why we would hold this person any more responsible for their illness. The taxpayer does not "suffer." Society does not "suffer." We care for the people who suffer.
I don't know why these peope feel this way. They cannot expect others to take action to remove otherwise healthy body parts. But I have zero judgement for the people suffering if removing them relieves their suffering. I wish there was another way. Understandably many of us can't be part of what they feel they need to do. But if they do it, as you say, we will all collectively care for these people. I can only hope that the whatever they do to relieve their suffering, does so
There is no "exploitation" when someone is suffering in these ways. Are you going to tell me autistic people who are nonverbal and cannot live on their own or have jobs are "exploiting" the rest of us?
You are seriously defining this person as "well"? That's the issue where you see them differently than the severely autistic person. They weren't "well" before they took their own eyes.
As far as "enablers," see my example of women seeking hysterectomy for pelvic pain of otherwise unexplainable origin. The only difference is we can understand why such a person believes the surgery will help them.
People with chronic pain, and some forms of the suffering from mental illness probably has a lot in common, many people would literally cut off their right foot if it made what ailed them go away, cut off their balls or their uterus. Nevermind if that was the "cause," if someone had a magic wand and that was the price, many would. So I'm baffled how we would blame someone with BIID for doing what they do. I'm not saying this means I'm jumping up to cut on them or I think that should be the treatment, but damn if I don't feel for those folks and think they sound some kind of sick and suffering.
I can't imagine this person was well, but hey, maybe they just did it for the sweet sweet ss money.