I want to keep vague so I'm not breaking any privacy reasons. The patient has been seen at the clinic the past 21 years (all her life) and has an sever anxiety disorder; referred to a therapist, platelet dysfunction; referred to a hematologist, ovarian issues; referred to the obgyn, lupus; referred to a Rheumatologist, Neuro related issues from lupus; nouro, recently detected kidney issues; referred to nephrologist, she also has endocrinology issues and seen by such specialist.
A lot of her specialists/ doctors are ped's and don't want her (and have advised) her not to switch over as a lot of the illness she has are child related and they know her best. My policy has always been (general doctor) by the age of 21 for patients to have transitioned. It's a college town and the kids over 18 normally are seen for something simple as an ear ache and are treated.
Her case is very complicated and I admit there are some illnesses that as a general ped go over my head and I refer her out and give her the best resources possible. I've told her I don't think I can give her all that she needs. One of our other ped doctors saw her last in the clinic and brought up the idea of her switching to an different doctor to say the least she had a genuine panic attack.
The next visit she raised some valid concerns to me; she has a sever anxiety disorder and it took her 17 years to trust me and talk about them, she would skip most appointments and avoid for years due to anxiety and now she's comfortable talking to me, she see's specialists for all the major issues (I have dealt with anxiety medications and do so after consulting therapist, and migraine management) and with her health issues deteriorating the only thing in her life that has ever felt stable was her primary doctor never changing.
She has left very subtle hints that being made to change is so uneasy it might even make her stop treatment and that scares me.
I do not typically treat her issues with narcotics but have given or a few temporary scripts of such and in fact she requested I don't prescribe them again as sedative medications make her chronic fatigue and migraines worsen. After a hospital visit she's requested to check in with her primary and a specialist that deals wit the issues (it can take a few weeks to get into specialists). She checks in here we speak and if the ER has requested and or recommended a special script -- we'll fill it.