This forum has been quiet for awhile, nice to see some life...
I have to say that I am really glad that the previous people posting have approached this forum the way they have. I think that reviewing individual forums can be very subjective and I haven't always found prior reviews that helpful. The programs that I may review not-so-highly were due to my own personal experiences, which could vary between person to person and day to day. I have noticed that these PD's really take their programs to heart and I wouldn't want in any way to unfairly tarnish their name.
With that being said, I really recommend interviewing at a variety of programs from all geographic regions. You know yourself best and what you want out of your career, so you can see what every place has to offer (e.g. some places have a VA or community hospital other than the university hospital...do you want a variety of exposure to healthcare?) One big thing that I've seen with these programs, is how are they managing the 80 hour work week? Some have put a night float system into place, others have established caps, and I've seen a few programs hire resident assistants to help manage the aftercare of the patient (scheduling CT, follow up appointments). Each system has their pros and cons.
Also are you going to see primary and tertiary medicine and pediatrics at all these locations (peds seems to be the one that can go either way)? There are programs that are the only shop in town, so you are going to see everything. Other programs have other children's hospitals in the region or are very specialized in one department and so you may see more of one specialty than getting a balanced experience. It all depends what your priorities are. If you want to go into a certain specialty, make sure you check with residents to see if there is enough mentorship/research and then see if any recent alumni have matched into that specialty and where (I like to see someone at the top children's hospitals to know that the sky is the limit!)
Lastly, this process is bigger than you if you have a SO. As supportive of your dreams they may be, you want to know that both of you are going to be happy for 4 long years at the place you matched. It's nice if there are family/friends in that location so that both of you have a support network and are not just implanted into a completely foreign area. Also, look at these dinners to see if resident's SOs are there. Bring your SO to the interview or a second look. If they do come with you to the night-before dinner and a resident's SO is there, have them talk to see how life is like as a SO at this program/location.
Things you believe are important in the beginning become less important, and things you never thought would pop in your head suddenly have meaning.
Just my two cents...