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I'm writing to ask advice from psychiatrists about being in residency with a husband who will also be a resident while we have a young child. I am an MD/PhD student and just had my first child, who will be 2.5 years old when my husband and I begin residency. I would like to do psych and my husband is probably going to do pathology. I'm wondering whether it's doable for us to juggle child care without hiring a nanny, given our specialty choices. Will our schedules during residency allow one of us to pick up and drop off our child from preschool/child care? And even more worrying for me -- if my son is sick, what options do we have to care for him? The idea of "back up care" services frighten me, as I don't want to leave my child with a stranger. I know there are many other threads about children in residency on SDN, but I didn't find any specific to psych so I thought I would ask here. Please excuse me if this is a redundant post. Finally, one other question -- are there particular psych residency programs that are considered especially "family friendly" that I should consider? Any with child care on site? The programs my husband and I are currently looking at, given his training goals, include University of Washington, Yale, OHSU, Stanford, UCSF, Cornell, Columbia, Wash U, and MGH/Brigham. We are currently students at a peer institution of these schools. If I should be considering community programs too rather than academic ones, I'm open to that. I don't need to be "super-doc" but so far I have done well in med school and would like to continue to move my career forward while being the best mom I can.
I'd also welcome any PMs if that's easier. Thank you!
I'd also welcome any PMs if that's easier. Thank you!