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Several weeks ago, I had a really strange interview day. My first interview of the day went really well. She asked me very relevant questions, complimented me on answers, and said that she "had a lot of fun talking to me." I was feeling pretty good.
My second and last interview of the day did not go as well. He was the former dean of admissions (stepped down over 10 years ago) and looked to be at least 80 years old. In this 30 minute interview, we talked about my family for about 10 minutes. After all this, he then asked about my grandparents, which I thought was a tad strange after all the family talk, but I shared some information about how they came here from Italy, and how that's affected my family. After all this, he asked, "If I asked you to sit on your hands, do you think you'd still be able to speak?" I played this off as best as I could, laughed, and said that must be the Italian in me.
He then proceeded to say that he had to ask me one of a list of questions. "Oh, this one will be good for you: Imagine that your patient of many years asks you out on a date. What do you do?" I was a little thrown off by his very direct opening. I answered as best as I could, saying that I would politely decline, and maintain professionalism while keeping the patient comfortable.
After this, he asked, "Is there some sort of question that I haven't asked that you thought I might ask, like 'Why Medicine?'" I might have blushed a little here. I answered politely that there was nothing I came in expecting, and asked if there was anything he would like me to discuss further. He answered a simple "No." (I can't figure this out. I honestly don't believe that I came off as rude during this interview.)
When it came time for me to ask questions, I said, "There seems to be a very collaborative environment here. Is this something that X school fosters, or is it a happy coincidence?" His answer:
"Well the saying goes that birds of a feather flock together, and one day you'll meet a man and you'll know exactly what I meant by that."
Result: Waitlisted.
tl;dr I am a 23 yo female who recently interviewed with a sexist old man. How should I handle such situations in my upcoming interviews and not hurt my chances despite the opinions/background of my interviewer?
My second and last interview of the day did not go as well. He was the former dean of admissions (stepped down over 10 years ago) and looked to be at least 80 years old. In this 30 minute interview, we talked about my family for about 10 minutes. After all this, he then asked about my grandparents, which I thought was a tad strange after all the family talk, but I shared some information about how they came here from Italy, and how that's affected my family. After all this, he asked, "If I asked you to sit on your hands, do you think you'd still be able to speak?" I played this off as best as I could, laughed, and said that must be the Italian in me.
He then proceeded to say that he had to ask me one of a list of questions. "Oh, this one will be good for you: Imagine that your patient of many years asks you out on a date. What do you do?" I was a little thrown off by his very direct opening. I answered as best as I could, saying that I would politely decline, and maintain professionalism while keeping the patient comfortable.
After this, he asked, "Is there some sort of question that I haven't asked that you thought I might ask, like 'Why Medicine?'" I might have blushed a little here. I answered politely that there was nothing I came in expecting, and asked if there was anything he would like me to discuss further. He answered a simple "No." (I can't figure this out. I honestly don't believe that I came off as rude during this interview.)
When it came time for me to ask questions, I said, "There seems to be a very collaborative environment here. Is this something that X school fosters, or is it a happy coincidence?" His answer:
"Well the saying goes that birds of a feather flock together, and one day you'll meet a man and you'll know exactly what I meant by that."
Result: Waitlisted.
tl;dr I am a 23 yo female who recently interviewed with a sexist old man. How should I handle such situations in my upcoming interviews and not hurt my chances despite the opinions/background of my interviewer?
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