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When it comes to the application essays and interviews, how much personal struggle info is too much?
For instance, should I go testes to the wall and tell them my dad is an alcoholic and on meth who is basically homeless and threatens to kill me and my dogs from time to time? That my mom is a pill-popping, hypochondratic, bi-polar alcoholic. My ex-crackhead brother is currently in jail for sexual assault. My older sister couldn't deal with the BS so she isolated herself from the family (although she's pretty normal). I was homeless at 17 bc my mother had a mid-life crisis and went to jail. Got my GED. Joined the Army, deployed at 20. I got a divorce during my undergrad bc my husband cheated on me and had a baby w/ someone else. None of my family have helped me or supported me through my path to med-school. BUT, here I am. Almost done, killer GPA, killer resume, etc...
Or... should I just be like: "My family has been as supportive as they can" And leave it at that?
I know Med-schools want to hear some struggle but how much is too much? I don't want them thinking I'm as crazy as my fam...
Any advice would be awesome, thanks!
Marilyn
For instance, should I go testes to the wall and tell them my dad is an alcoholic and on meth who is basically homeless and threatens to kill me and my dogs from time to time? That my mom is a pill-popping, hypochondratic, bi-polar alcoholic. My ex-crackhead brother is currently in jail for sexual assault. My older sister couldn't deal with the BS so she isolated herself from the family (although she's pretty normal). I was homeless at 17 bc my mother had a mid-life crisis and went to jail. Got my GED. Joined the Army, deployed at 20. I got a divorce during my undergrad bc my husband cheated on me and had a baby w/ someone else. None of my family have helped me or supported me through my path to med-school. BUT, here I am. Almost done, killer GPA, killer resume, etc...
Or... should I just be like: "My family has been as supportive as they can" And leave it at that?
I know Med-schools want to hear some struggle but how much is too much? I don't want them thinking I'm as crazy as my fam...
Any advice would be awesome, thanks!
Marilyn