Pickle Salt
great idea to do this! - esp. b.c you sound very sincere about this school and b/c the meeting was arranged properly in a way that you know she's looking foreward to meeting you. At all times just be yourself and let your sincereity towards being a good doctor and attending this school as a means to achieve that goal show through. I met with top 5 school's Dean of admissions last fall before I went abroad b/c I had some legit questions about the logistics of applying [ being abroad during this process makes things more complicated] and re-taking my MCAT in order to maximize my competitiveness. Whether or not it helped (schmoozing/making connections-wise) I'm not sure. This isn't a school that needs to 'court' applicants. But the meeting certainly helped b/c I gained lots of valuble info and I know it didn't hurt at all b/c I not the BSing or brown-nosing type.
I'm sure you've already done this - but ask yourself what do I want from my medical career? (typical where do I see myself in 10 years from now essay question type of thinking) and access how this med school is going to put you on that path better than some other schools in case she asks you.
I would look nice and take along a portfolio and stuff to jot notes. Also if you have some good, solid questions, you can write them down and makes you look prepared and professional.
Can you produce significant supplementary materials from your experience (like are they artistic?) maybe you could ask her if they would accept a portfolio or something in evaluating you? This may be a good way to bring up your concerns about low stats and high qualifications.
Or if you were bold enough you could say
" Well, I'm here today because (name) is my top choice medical school and I just want to learn a little more about it and learn what I could do to improve my chances for admission. While I realize my stats are average for your school, my experiences doing (fill in) over the past 8 years has shown me that Ilike to do this-and-this in the future and I believe (name) is going to help me get there ..."
Hmmm, maybe thats too bold - I would access the way the conversation in going
Wow, sorry I have no idea how this got so long
Good luck and tell us how it went!
sincerely, bludeviled "Admissions Consultant"