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Hey SDN,
I recently (two weeks ago) had my final interview at one of my top two schools. Yesterday I was talking to a friend in dental school at this school, and he asked if I had sent "thank yous" yet. I haven't sent thank yous, and he responded "I'd send them, it can't hurt, better late than never."
I haven't sent "thank yous" to any of the four schools where I've interviewed, and I'll tell you why. (Please don't rip me apart for this..)
1. A "thank you" note written from out of fulfillment of duty and obligation isn't really a real thank you note.
2. No offense to adcoms, but what am I thankful for? Am I thankful that you spent 20 minutes of your time evaluating me? Yes. However, I am the "customer" if you will that spent $200 to apply, $400 in gas, $100 on an outfit, and $100 on a hotel room. So, as much as I am grateful for you looking at my application (which I paid $200 for you to do so), and as much as I am grateful for you spending 20 minutes of your time with me, I am not writing you a "thank you" out of obligation because that isn't really what thankfulness is. And, after all, I spent over $500 to apply and travel to your school, I think our "thank yous" can be cancelled out. I won't send you your "thank you" note, and you don't have to send me mine.
Am I the only person who feels this way about "thank yous"? Besides, I thanked them on my interview date, and as far as I am concerned, a verbal thank you bears no less meaning than a written thank you.
I recently (two weeks ago) had my final interview at one of my top two schools. Yesterday I was talking to a friend in dental school at this school, and he asked if I had sent "thank yous" yet. I haven't sent thank yous, and he responded "I'd send them, it can't hurt, better late than never."
I haven't sent "thank yous" to any of the four schools where I've interviewed, and I'll tell you why. (Please don't rip me apart for this..)
1. A "thank you" note written from out of fulfillment of duty and obligation isn't really a real thank you note.
2. No offense to adcoms, but what am I thankful for? Am I thankful that you spent 20 minutes of your time evaluating me? Yes. However, I am the "customer" if you will that spent $200 to apply, $400 in gas, $100 on an outfit, and $100 on a hotel room. So, as much as I am grateful for you looking at my application (which I paid $200 for you to do so), and as much as I am grateful for you spending 20 minutes of your time with me, I am not writing you a "thank you" out of obligation because that isn't really what thankfulness is. And, after all, I spent over $500 to apply and travel to your school, I think our "thank yous" can be cancelled out. I won't send you your "thank you" note, and you don't have to send me mine.
Am I the only person who feels this way about "thank yous"? Besides, I thanked them on my interview date, and as far as I am concerned, a verbal thank you bears no less meaning than a written thank you.