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Anyone have to significantly compromise on residency program choice due to their significant other's geographic restrictions? (relative or set in stone.)How did it work out, and are you happy with your choice? For those who put their foot down and insisted on moving to be at a better program despite their partner's misgivings...was it worth it?
I ask because my spouse is *relatively* restricted (works for himself in a widely marketable field, but has built up his clientele and network of contractors.) We also own a home, are near his family, and have a small child in school. All great reasons to stay, in addition to the fact that I love my home program (mid-tier.) I applied somewhat broadly, just to be sure, and sometimes when those big name interview invites roll in, I get stars in my eyes....sigh. My husband wants me to exclusively prioritize my rank list based on location, but this would mean a huge compromise on program quality (or so it seems.) This obviously has to be decided on a individual basis, but would love to hear from others in the same situation.
I ask because my spouse is *relatively* restricted (works for himself in a widely marketable field, but has built up his clientele and network of contractors.) We also own a home, are near his family, and have a small child in school. All great reasons to stay, in addition to the fact that I love my home program (mid-tier.) I applied somewhat broadly, just to be sure, and sometimes when those big name interview invites roll in, I get stars in my eyes....sigh. My husband wants me to exclusively prioritize my rank list based on location, but this would mean a huge compromise on program quality (or so it seems.) This obviously has to be decided on a individual basis, but would love to hear from others in the same situation.