Thanks Dr.Midlife for your comment. I am trying to find the best way to support my family while fulfilling my dream. I have researched and even talked to certain medical school professors about my situation. One recommended this network to me and the other suggested his route which is what I am taking right now. I will appreciate it if you could be able to advice me on what to do. the plan was to get an undergraduate degree and work to support the family while I prepare for med school since I am the soul provider of my family. I know its a long route but I am willing to take it. Am I making the right decision? Are there other alternatives? Do I need to go through a post bac. programme although I amn taking most of the prereqs. now. Will appreciate everyone's view.
First, if you have been advised to study nursing on your way to med school, then one of two things happened:
1. you got advice from somebody who has no business offering advice, because that's just bad advice.
2. you presented your complex situation to somebody who doesn't have the time or experience to advise you.
A competent premed adviser can handle this: "I'm a traditional 19 year old university bio major with a good GPA and I want to go to med school. What should I be doing?"
What
nobody can handle is this: "I want to go to med school. I need to provide for my family during the years I'll be training for my career. Also I am risk averse; since there's no guarantee I'll get into med school I want my training to have a rational plan B. I have already decided to study nursing as plan B. How do I manage my transition from community college to university?"
So:
break it down.
Before you load your family
and your risk aversion
and your nursing scheme
and your current course schedule onto your ambition to be a doctor, just look at what it takes to be a doctor. Understand the
normal pathway to becoming a doctor
before you try to modify that pathway to suit your requirements.
Specifically:
1. Pick a med school. Study their admissions website. Read the FAQ. Do this for at least 2 MD schools and 1 DO school. Compare/contrast the required coursework, because it varies by med school. Trust nobody to explain the med school requirements to you. Be the grownup in charge of this.
Pay attention to advice in the FAQ about community college coursework.
2. Pick a university. Study their premed advising web page. Take note of the basic course sequences for premeds. Find the syllabi or detailed course descriptions for the med school prereqs and get familiar with them.
3. Now look at the courses at your current (community?) college. Try to find a pre-health advising page, if there is one, that explains which courses to take if you want to go to med school vs. if you want to do nursing.
4. Now go try to find the community college transfer page on the
university's website, and see what your community college courses will transfer as. Some universities figure this out for you, others make you litigate your transferred coursework.
THEN
5. If you still think nursing is how you want to get into med school, compare and contrast those courses with what you learned above, and figure out if you can realistically be both pre-nursing and pre-med, or not. Or, just focus on nursing and exit this list.
THEN (if you still want to be a doctor)
6. Agonize and lose sleep and talk things over with your spouse. Think hard about whether you have a good plan or not. (Pretty much do this every day for the rest of your life.)
THEN
7. Ask clarifying questions on SDN.
THEN
8. For best results, get straight A's, and if you can't get straight A's, take fewer classes. A's open doors. Non-A's close them.
Best of luck to you.