I have a son who is right looking at alternatives in the field of medicine ... going for MD in Caribbean school versus doing a DO program in US itself ? Curious to know if some one as more insights into the Pros and Cons of both the program's.
I'm sorry to be another one who points this out, but your if your son is already considering medicine, he should be pursuing this, not you. You need to be there to offer every bit of support that you can, but he is capable of taking the initiative.
I'm not really sure why there's a parents' forum here. I think it's appropriate for parents of college students who have decided to apply and need help figuring out their role in the application process and helping to finance a medical school education. In fact, maybe you should ask SDN to create such a forum, because it's probably more useful. In the meantime, you can learn quite a bit about medical school from other forums.
I'll jump on the bandwagon from this point on. Your son hasn't even entered college, but is seriously considering Caribbean and DO schools? Not a good move. MD's who graduate from Caribbean schools are in the end MD's. But they make tremendous sacrifices. Basically, they have to complete the same pre-reqs without the same academic achievements. Sounds great, since they'll still have a chance at US residencies, but they're limiting themselves.
A good friend of mine went to college because his parents expected him to do so. He had a 3.3 GPA from Boston College...not competitive for med school, but still no slouch. He went to AUC and did all of his clinical rotations (second two years of med school) in NYC. He graduated top of his class, but he still couldn't get a spot in any of the surgery residencies he wanted with a 4.0 in med school.
DO's may become equivalent to MD's in the next 20-30 years, but they face the same bias.
I'm not here to debate what's right or fair, but since you're interested, you should know how it works. If your son wants to be a physician, he should spend the next four years working harder than he ever has to achieve the best possible GPA and MCAT score.
As an older and non-traditional applicant to med school, I feel that you should be careful. Let your son decide what he wants to do without any pressure from you or his family. Pressure him to succeed all you want, but encourage him to succeed in a way that is right for him. Don't push him towards lucrative or prestigious fields. I've known artists who found a way to become independently wealthy or hugely successful in fields that don't ordinarily present tremendous opportunity. If your son feels free to pursue what he loves, and (equally importantly) pressure to make something of it (AKA WE ARE NOT supporting you until you're 35, but we'll be patient enough to let you explore A LITTLE), he will make it, somehow.
If you push him into medicine, or law, or business, and make him feel like he's inadequate otherwise, he will either 1.) rebel or 2.) hate you for it.
Your role as a parent strikes an extremely delicate balance. You can't let him flake out, but you can't push him to do something he doesn't love. Set the boundaries now. Make it clear that you'll pay for X amount of years of school. Don't tell him that you'll only pay for a certain major. But DO make it clear that he has a set amount of time to coast on his parents' financial support, and that whatever he decides, if he loves it and proves that he's good at it, you'll support it.
I say this now as a 30-year-old student who never had financial support. When I decided to go pre-med, it was on my own. In the meantime, I've had dozens of friends who either disappointed their parents by pursuing something unexpected, or (MUCH WORSE) did what their parents wanted them to do and either a.) HATE IT or b.) are now working some menial job and trying to figure out what they want to do.
I'm not saying that you're pushing your kid to do what you think is right. I just think you're best off keeping an open mind while making sure your son knows you won't tolerate sub-par grades in whatever he chooses to study.