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I define ECFMG-Widow as an "ECFMG-Certified IMG who
never landed-up finding a residency". I've heard that
there are tens of thousands of such persons, living in
the States presently.
Just curious as to- How do such ECFMG-Widows spend
their lives? I mean what they think, what alternatives
they find/have, how can they continuously tolerate the
intense sadness arising out of life's wasted efforts etc.
Never clearing an ECFMG exam step, may turn out to
be a blessing in disguise for many, since, then, at least
they can get on with other facets of their lives. But,
having passed both the USMLE steps once, especially with a
low score, can turn out to be a lifelong curse for many-
as then, they can never really give-up the ghost of that hope-
its like entering the limbo-state, like- 'instead of the
death of or the divorce from a husband, you simply
land-up loosing him in a huge crowd'- then, you can never
officially call yourself a widow or a divorcee, and always
have that hope, albeit small, lingering in the back of your
mind- that he may just return one day or you'll find a
residency some year! A nightmare at best!
never landed-up finding a residency". I've heard that
there are tens of thousands of such persons, living in
the States presently.
Just curious as to- How do such ECFMG-Widows spend
their lives? I mean what they think, what alternatives
they find/have, how can they continuously tolerate the
intense sadness arising out of life's wasted efforts etc.
Never clearing an ECFMG exam step, may turn out to
be a blessing in disguise for many, since, then, at least
they can get on with other facets of their lives. But,
having passed both the USMLE steps once, especially with a
low score, can turn out to be a lifelong curse for many-
as then, they can never really give-up the ghost of that hope-
its like entering the limbo-state, like- 'instead of the
death of or the divorce from a husband, you simply
land-up loosing him in a huge crowd'- then, you can never
officially call yourself a widow or a divorcee, and always
have that hope, albeit small, lingering in the back of your
mind- that he may just return one day or you'll find a
residency some year! A nightmare at best!