You all are exactly the problem.
Your poor understanding of how surgical consent works isn't exactly contributing to the solution, either.
Old folks don't get "routine circumcisions" unless there is a lesion that is causing them to need a part cut off.
Well, I do disagree with whoever called this a "routine circumcision," because I don't think you can label a circumcision as "routine" in anyone over the age of 2 days.
But, lots of "old folks" get circumcised for non-cancerous reasons. Cancerous lesions are
NOT the only indication for an adult circumcision - in fact,
the MOST common indications are phimosis and paraphimosis, neither of which are cancerous. Balanitis is another common reason.
How much, exactly, did you learn on that urology rotation that you were boasting about?
Cancers in the penis are a death-sentence if they reach a lymph node. Look it up, if you even know how. You obviously don't know enough about medicine to know what you don't know.
Well, most cancers of ANYTHING (penis, breast, colon, pancreas) become significantly harder to treat if they reach a lymph node.
But, as alwaysangel pointed out, there's no rush. It took months, maybe years, for that lesion to grow to that size; another week or so to take it all off isn't going to change much.
If you DID do your surgery rotation, as you had boasted about, you would have learned that there are really no such things as STAT mastectomies or Whipples. Surgical resection of cancerous lesions are rarely, if ever, emergencies.
Just as other people have said, the safest thing to do (medico-legally) is, if you decide that the patient may need a different procedure than what he originally consented for, you have to wake the patient up and reschedule the new procedure once the patient has consented again. I saw this done on my GYN and surgery rotations.
He is a very methodical, diligent, hard-working guy. He's not arrogant or any of that jazz that one might expect after hearing the story. He's also not the type of doc to get sued because he doesn't connect with people or he rushes around.
I'm sure he's a nice guy. And I'm sure that he IS very hard working. That doesn't mean that he didn't make a mistake in this case, or have an error in judgement. Being nice doesn't make you immune from making mistakes.