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I'm a fellow in a competitive specialty. I love what I'm doing and I have never had any problems with the hours I had to work in order to get there. This year, however, I'm running into serious problems keeping myself motivated to get out of bed and go to work in the mornings.
I feel I have one important grievance with my program.
I am a woman in a male dominated specialty. I am in a situation where I am literally the only female in the program. I really feel at a disadvantage for not being part of the 'boys club'. In the beginning of my fellowship, several attendings have told me point-blank that our specialty is, in their opinion, an unsuitable job for a woman, and that I am setting myself up for failure in both my private and professional lives by pursuing it. I have done my very best to put in good work and I believe they are convinced of my capabilities as a doctor, but on a personal level they don't really get along with me as well as with my male colleagues.
They are not supportive of my plans for pursuing a particular subspecialty, because they believe it's not for women. Not being close to any of the attendings also makes that I don't have a mentor. I feel this makes the difficult decisions I have to make now regarding my future even harder.
These issues have brought me to a point where I'm in danger of loosing my passion and love for my chosen profession before even completing my training. The prospect of having to function in such a hostile environment for the rest of my career almost makes me want to run for the hills and become a pediatrician after all.
Are any of you in a similar situation and how have you improved it?
I feel I have one important grievance with my program.
I am a woman in a male dominated specialty. I am in a situation where I am literally the only female in the program. I really feel at a disadvantage for not being part of the 'boys club'. In the beginning of my fellowship, several attendings have told me point-blank that our specialty is, in their opinion, an unsuitable job for a woman, and that I am setting myself up for failure in both my private and professional lives by pursuing it. I have done my very best to put in good work and I believe they are convinced of my capabilities as a doctor, but on a personal level they don't really get along with me as well as with my male colleagues.
They are not supportive of my plans for pursuing a particular subspecialty, because they believe it's not for women. Not being close to any of the attendings also makes that I don't have a mentor. I feel this makes the difficult decisions I have to make now regarding my future even harder.
These issues have brought me to a point where I'm in danger of loosing my passion and love for my chosen profession before even completing my training. The prospect of having to function in such a hostile environment for the rest of my career almost makes me want to run for the hills and become a pediatrician after all.
Are any of you in a similar situation and how have you improved it?