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I was looking for some threads about vet school students who are married and/or have children, but couldn't find any.
Anyone else out there?
Anyone else out there?
Some threads for you. I just did a 5 minute search with the word 'children'. Gotta do some diggin' if you want results! (hahaha, I just wanted to use that smilie)
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=584242&highlight=children
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=876508&highlight=children
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=833365&highlight=children
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=826983&highlight=children
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=768430&highlight=children
I'm so happy to hear there are others out there! My husband and I have been married for two and a half years, and are facing being apart for the first time. I will be moving to Davis and he is staying in Palm Desert because he can't leave his new job so soon. He is working on becoming a fire fighter and after recently being hired by a station he can't leave yet. It's so hard to get into one!
We don't have kids, but we think about them a lot. I am afraid that I would never see them if I had kids before going to vet school. How do you guys do it?
Im not married but I have a 6 year old...I would be in c/o 2017 if I get in this cycle. I had him my freshmen year of college People have asked how I plan to handle being a mom in vet school but I made it through undergrad with him and it only gets easier/more fun with age. He is too excited that his mom might be an animal doctor
Hi there! I am married and we are expecting our first child in April. I am currently a 3rd year at Oklahoma State.
That's so awesome! I'm sure it helps, too, that he is a bit older now. He understands.
I'm worried about having a little baby, missing those first words, first steps.
Lissarae- how will it work missing classes when the baby is born? Can you take more than a few days off? WSU's policy on having kids while in school is basically 'don't'. If you get pregnant plan to leave and retake the year... I don't know anyone here who's had a kid so I can't ask them how accommodating the school actually is when it comes down to it.
The baby discussion is a frequent one in our house so I'm glad to see you guys are making it work!
Planned or pleasant surprise?
I am due April 9th. I have 3 finals starting April 12. I really hope to be able to take them the week after the baby is born (if she is born on time), but if not, I will just take them late. A classmate just gave birth in December and that's how it worked for her. Then after finals I will have one week off for our inter-year break (that's most likely when I would make up any finals) and then I'm using my first rotation for my vacation rotation so I will have 3 weeks off. The school is really accomodating and the professors are all willing to work with me (so far). 4th year is going to be a real challenge but I think we will be able to make it work.
No worries. You aren't the first (or probably last) person to ask.Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry!!!! Didn't mean to offend. (
Sounds like it will work perfectly! We are considering trying to plan a December baby since we get 3.5 weeks off but I was worried about the little one coming early and missing finals. It's good to know that some universities will accommodate this. Gives me courage to ask student services if it's a possibility.
Thanks so much for sharing! I am so excited for you and your husband
I'm married and I just want to say I'm so impressed with people who aren't putting their family life on hold for school. I know I've said this somewhere before, but I just got married this past summer (after nearly 7 years together). I feel like I've finally got a handle on my life (I'm less busy now than in undergrad) and I feel like the next logical step is to have children. However, I am on the younger side having started vet school right after undergrad. So waiting until I'm out of school for a while isn't too big of a deal. But then when I hear about vet students have babies (mostly during third year), I'm just like "I wanna have a baby too!"
I'm a traditional student so I'm on the younger side. I just thought about how it wasn't going to be any easier once I was done with school. I thought about how my employer might feel if I got pregnant right after starting work, etc. and it just made sense for us. We are financially able to do it, I sit on my butt in class most days so being pregnant during school wasn't a big deal, and we couldn't really think of many good reasons to wait.
Married almost 6 years... no kiddos yet.
Two of the menfolk in my class have kids. Wait... three. Yeah. None of the girls do, so far.
I'm a traditional student so I'm on the younger side. I just thought about how it wasn't going to be any easier once I was done with school. I thought about how my employer might feel if I got pregnant right after starting work, etc. and it just made sense for us. We are financially able to do it, I sit on my butt in class most days so being pregnant during school wasn't a big deal, and we couldn't really think of many good reasons to wait.
I'm a traditional student so I'm on the younger side. I just thought about how it wasn't going to be any easier once I was done with school. I thought about how my employer might feel if I got pregnant right after starting work, etc. and it just made sense for us. We are financially able to do it, I sit on my butt in class most days so being pregnant during school wasn't a big deal, and we couldn't really think of many good reasons to wait.
I'm adopted! So I always get kind of excited when I hear people say this.We aren't sure if we want kids at all (he's 28 and I'm 25) but we do like the idea of adopting rather than having our own child.
I'm only 24 and my boyfriend lives only 2 hours away in our home town. I got really lucky that we started dating while I was a first year so he was already used to my busy class schedule and variable stress levels, haha. I get home to see him around every 2-3 weeks. It takes a little effort to plan out my workload for the weeks when I won't be doing as much on the weekends, but I've never wanted to be an A+++ student. I have been happy with the amount of work I put into school, my family, and him so far. I have MAJOR respect for the married (and dating) couples who do serious long distance- you guys are really awesome!For those of you living away from your SO during vet school, how do you do THAT? I am about to go into this situation, maybe so much as continents away, and it is freaking me out a bit...
That's so awesome! I'm sure it helps, too, that he is a bit older now. He understands.
I'm worried about having a little baby, missing those first words, first steps.
there is never a "good time" to have a baby in terms of having enough time/finances IMO.
When is the "best time" as far as school goes? One of the Dr's I work with said try to get pregnant your 2nd year and have the baby before 3rd if you can.
qft.
Meh. I still think the biggest annoyance with having kids is listening to my younger, single(r?) classmates with almost no responsibilities in life other than school whine about how little time they have to get everything done. A few of the older ones with other stuff in life, ok, cool, we're on the same page - whine away. But the more typical 25-year-old who complains because vet school takes her away from her horse so she only gets to ride 4 times a week?
I mean, I'm not saying it doesn't suck to have to cut back on your recreational riding. And sorry to all you horse people to use that as an example. But man I want to slap some people some time. Try having to cut back on ... oh ... everything that you used to do for fun. And then still having to take a lousy grade in the occasional class here or there because you <actually> don't have enough time to study for it (as opposed to how people like to <say> they didn't have enough time, but really it's because they were busy catching up on episodes of whatever tv show is popular at the moment).
This may be a little off topic, but I was just wondering how much being married effects financial aide. I know with vet school it's basically loans, not grants or anything so I wouldn't think it would make a huge difference, but just wondering. Did anyone get married while in vet school?
This may be a little off topic, but I was just wondering how much being married effects financial aide. I know with vet school it's basically loans, not grants or anything so I wouldn't think it would make a huge difference, but just wondering. Did anyone get married while in vet school?
Seems to me the 'best time' would be just as your first year finishes and you've got 3 months to spend being a full-time mom. But I think you can make almost anything work.
I'm adopted! So I always get kind of excited when I hear people say this.
Depending on the school, I think giving birth right when second year ends would be better. You still have all summer and you don't have to worry about formalin fumes in the anatomy lab.
I'm sure some will want to kick me out of the thread since I'm not prevet/vet student/etc, but I second adopting. I want to foster kids myself - I work with them and see the challenges they face and the foster parents they deal with. I don't really want biological kids (partially due to my own health issues making it difficult to have kids, partially because I'm single, and partially other factors), but I'd love to foster to adopt and help give some kids that need homes homes. It'll be a while before I'll be able to, though. Goal is to get a PhD and get tenure.
We could always use more good foster homes in the world.
This may be a little off topic, but I was just wondering how much being married effects financial aide. I know with vet school it's basically loans, not grants or anything so I wouldn't think it would make a huge difference, but just wondering. Did anyone get married while in vet school?
I second this question.. I'm engaged ATM. And we plan on getting married as soon as he gets home from deployment.. Which could be right before Vet school starts, maybe even right after.. I have wondered how this will impact my financial aid... ( if I can get accepted first )
Oh yeah, I'm also horribly tempted to list "having and raising a baby" under extra curricular activities on my CV. If someone is willing to look at that, laugh and hire me anyways, they at least have a sense of humor. And, I figure having a baby in vet school will allay any fears of me not being able to handle work and a baby.