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Many medical students (and law students, dental students, MBA students, PhD students, post-docs, etc.) have articulated some of the same things you're saying - so you're not alone. Did you feel the same way about some of your undergraduate classes? If yes, it's kind of the same way in medical school: listen to lectures (and many lectures are not thrilling), go to labs, study, pass tests, study, go to hospital, comply with curricula, study, sleep if you have any spare time to sleep, etc. Work-work-work. It's not always exciting and fun. Many times, I was envious of my friends and family who were having fun at the ocean, lake, mountains, concerts, plays, movies, or whatever, while I was studying for hours in the library. Once again, work-work-work. It felt endless at times.Have any of you felt this way? Is this really a sign that I should pursue something else? Can I hate medical school and enjoy a career in medicine? Thanks for the insight.
I just returned from winter break and am sitting in class on my first day back. I am finally accepting that I hate medical school. I hate the bull**** required small group sessions. I'm not interested in the vast majority of what we study after anatomy ended. I have no problem staying above the average at a top 3 program but I don't actually like anything I'm learning. I don't really identify with my classmates though I consider myself a very social person. I still can see myself at the end though. I've spent time with lots of different docs and I like what they do. I can see myself working 60-65 hours a week doing surgery or interventional rads/cardio or something active. I think I would be happy with the end game. The problem is my current situation is miserable. I have no idea how anyone can enjoy this. I keep skipping class to go hang out with real doctors so I can feel like I'm actually making progress toward my career, but I get penalized for this by my program. I'm just hoping I can get some perspective from current practicing doctors. Have any of you felt this way? Is this really a sign that I should pursue something else? Can I hate medical school and enjoy a career in medicine? Thanks for the insight.
Third year is much much worse. I say this as someone who was similar in the preclinical years. Way more BS to put up with. BS is fine when you are the one treating the patient but in a clerkship where i effectively shadow i sat on my thumb until 5 pm today before we did ANYTHING. Pretty frustrating when you think of how many better ways you could use the time like experiencing fields you wont have time to see outside of clerkships
One can get around this by being proactive and finding things to do. It's possible.
Third year is much much worse. I say this as someone who was similar in the preclinical years. Way more BS to put up with. BS is fine when you are the one treating the patient but in a clerkship where i effectively shadow i sat on my thumb until 5 pm today before we did ANYTHING. Pretty frustrating when you think of how many better ways you could use the time like experiencing fields you wont have time to see outside of clerkships
I just returned from winter break and am sitting in class on my first day back. I am finally accepting that I hate medical school. I hate the bull**** required small group sessions. I'm not interested in the vast majority of what we study after anatomy ended. I have no problem staying above the average at a top 3 program but I don't actually like anything I'm learning. I don't really identify with my classmates though I consider myself a very social person. I still can see myself at the end though. I've spent time with lots of different docs and I like what they do. I can see myself working 60-65 hours a week doing surgery or interventional rads/cardio or something active. I think I would be happy with the end game. The problem is my current situation is miserable. I have no idea how anyone can enjoy this. I keep skipping class to go hang out with real doctors so I can feel like I'm actually making progress toward my career, but I get penalized for this by my program. I'm just hoping I can get some perspective from current practicing doctors. Have any of you felt this way? Is this really a sign that I should pursue something else? Can I hate medical school and enjoy a career in medicine? Thanks for the insight.
Third year is much much worse. I say this as someone who was similar in the preclinical years. Way more BS to put up with. BS is fine when you are the one treating the patient but in a clerkship where i effectively shadow i sat on my thumb until 5 pm today before we did ANYTHING. Pretty frustrating when you think of how many better ways you could use the time like experiencing fields you wont have time to see outside of clerkships
I'm the stark opposite of lazy. I think that's why I am having such a problem. I feel like I'm just learning this stuff for learnings sake and I'll never use most of it other than to pass step 1. I don't feel like I'm actually DOING anything. I know just as much as I did 6 months ago about actual medicine. Thanks for the input!Medicine is a business and a job. Medical school is a school. If you like working your ass off and dealing with complex problems on a daily basis you will probably enjoy a career in medicine. If you are lazy and don't like work, you will probably hate your life until retirement. I see more people who hate work and blame it on medicine without realizing it isn't medicine they hate but just work in general. They would probably be miserable in any field that required the same amount of work. Good luck.
I'm confident I will enjoy some of my rotations. I have pretty broad interests and simply enjoy being around patients. I am definitely interested in surgery because I like how busy and active and hands on it is. Unfortunately at least the first two years of my path there are the exact opposite of that. Sitting through 6 hours of lecture a day is so beyond painful that working 100 hour weeks as a surgical resident sounds like a dream.Grit your teeth and get through it. If you enjoy spending time with doctors and patients, and can see yourself in their shoes, I think you will be ok. I didn't particularly care for medical school either. But I did enjoy my surgical rotations---you need to make sure you have some rotation that you enjoy... If you hate all your rotations then that's a problem.
Thanks for the pep talk. Thinking about the endless ways to practice medicine helps me feel much better. I'll eventually figure out something that I really enjoy3rd year is worse in the sense that your evaluations/grades are subjective to a certain degree based on residents/attending's that you randomly get assigned to...to the OP you can def still enjoy a career in medicine, field is so diverse, just have to get through 3 years of med school (4th is basically for interviews and electives) and figure out what direction you want to go
Agreed. 3rd year is the worst year of medical school.Third year is much much worse. I say this as someone who was similar in the preclinical years. Way more BS to put up with. BS is fine when you are the one treating the patient but in a clerkship where i effectively shadow i sat on my thumb until 5 pm today before we did ANYTHING. Pretty frustrating when you think of how many better ways you could use the time like experiencing fields you wont have time to see outside of clerkships
Third year is much much worse. I say this as someone who was similar in the preclinical years. Way more BS to put up with. BS is fine when you are the one treating the patient but in a clerkship where i effectively shadow i sat on my thumb until 5 pm today before we did ANYTHING. Pretty frustrating when you think of how many better ways you could use the time like experiencing fields you wont have time to see outside of clerkships
You feel that way because it is 100% true. I never have to freaking think about biochemistry at work. It's like, "hey, I know your loved one just died, but let me draw the Krebs cycle for you, I think this will help explain everything..." No. Useless.I'm the stark opposite of lazy. I think that's why I am having such a problem. I feel like I'm just learning this stuff for learnings sake and I'll never use most of it other than to pass step 1. I don't feel like I'm actually DOING anything. I know just as much as I did 6 months ago about actual medicine. Thanks for the input!
I keep skipping class to go hang out with real doctors so I can feel like I'm actually making progress toward my career, but I get penalized for this by my program.
I see more people who hate work and blame it on medicine without realizing it isn't medicine they hate but just work in general. They would probably be miserable in any field that required the same amount of work. Good luck.
And you would know that how?One can get around this by being proactive and finding things to do. It's possible.
Realizing this has helped me. It has allowed me to remember that medicine is probably the least painful option for me because I have a genuine interest in it. Every job is going to have BS heaped on top, but I imagine it would suck even more if there wasn't a nugget of interest underneath. While my sparks of inspiration and excitement are happening less than I thought they would in MS3, I still think they are occurring more than they would if I were stuck in a cubicle crunching some numbers in Excel.Medicine is a business and a job. Medical school is a school. If you like working your ass off and dealing with complex problems on a daily basis you will probably enjoy a career in medicine. If you are lazy and don't like work, you will probably hate your life until retirement. I see more people who hate work and blame it on medicine without realizing it isn't medicine they hate but just work in general. They would probably be miserable in any field that required the same amount of work. Good luck.
Do you really believe this? Ive been wondering if this was the case myself.
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How does your first sentence relate to your second?Some schools have rotations that are mostly shadowing. However, I find it incredibly hard to believe that busy physicians would categorically reject offers to help with other tasks.
How does your first sentence relate to your second?
"The grass outside is the color green. However, the Chicago Bulls won last night."
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You feel that way because it is 100% true. I never have to freaking think about biochemistry at work. It's like, "hey, I know your loved one just died, but let me draw the Krebs cycle for you, I think this will help explain everything..." No. Useless.
Don't worry, the real stuff comes later but it definitely comes. Hang in there.
Status: Medical Student (Accepted)No need to be a jackass here.
You are claiming it is NOT possible to be proactive and find things to do. Anyone who has ever been in any hospital is well aware that there are plenty of things to do.
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So you've been on 0 rotations? thanks for your irrelevant opinion.
This is called a straw man. I didn't say "doctors are never busy". I said there are rotations where you have nothing to do. They exist in some medical schools. Sorry you were unable to comprehend this extremely simple point.Yeah you're right, doctors are never busy and could never use a hand with anything. Great points!
And you would know that how?
Some bad med schools have trashy shadow-only rotations. Is this a concept that is hard for you to accept?
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I rarely agree with cbrons and often don't like his attitude (he's very Psai-esque), but he's pretty much spot on with this. Source - I just got off a rotation exactly like this. Also, regarding physicians being busy, med students actually create more work for attendings and the only instance I've come across to reduce this is if an attending uses a med student as a scribe. Not only does simply functioning as a scribe during clerkships suck and do very little for you educationally, but the attendings that tend to do this are often very lazy and have little, if any, interest in teaching.Yeah you're right, doctors are never busy and could never use a hand with anything. Great points!
Thanks for the pep talk. Thinking about the endless ways to practice medicine helps me feel much better. I'll eventually figure out something that I really enjoy
Second quarter of my first year, I like the rigor and material but my roommate is breaking down into near depression because he puts in tons of hours and doesnt score as high as he expects. Im afraid he will drop out but there is not much I can do to solve his problems. He keeps saying that life will rock after school is finally over and expects unrealistic things like being filthy rich and getting a ton of respect from everyone.
Second quarter of my first year, I like the rigor and material but my roommate is breaking down into near depression because he puts in tons of hours and doesnt score as high as he expects. Im afraid he will drop out but there is not much I can do to solve his problems. He keeps saying that life will rock after school is finally over and expects unrealistic things like being filthy rich and getting a ton of respect from everyone.
Do they need counseling/medication? I struggled 1st semester, as an older non-trad who had a decent career it was quite an adjustment to make. Really wanted to quit after 3-4 weeks. I was close with one of the faculty who mentioned that something like a quarter or third of current medical students were utilizing student counseling services
Life will improve after medical school/training but the stress/demands to perform do not go away, if anything stakes are higher but most acclimate and are able to deal (though medical professionals do have a fairly high rate of addiction)...also one does not need to be a stellar medical student in order to become a financially successful physician, many variables here
I just returned from winter break and am sitting in class on my first day back. I am finally accepting that I hate medical school. I hate the bull**** required small group sessions. I'm not interested in the vast majority of what we study after anatomy ended. I have no problem staying above the average at a top 3 program but I don't actually like anything I'm learning. I don't really identify with my classmates though I consider myself a very social person. I still can see myself at the end though. I've spent time with lots of different docs and I like what they do. I can see myself working 60-65 hours a week doing surgery or interventional rads/cardio or something active. I think I would be happy with the end game. The problem is my current situation is miserable. I have no idea how anyone can enjoy this. I keep skipping class to go hang out with real doctors so I can feel like I'm actually making progress toward my career, but I get penalized for this by my program. I'm just hoping I can get some perspective from current practicing doctors. Have any of you felt this way? Is this really a sign that I should pursue something else? Can I hate medical school and enjoy a career in medicine? Thanks for the insight.
No need to be a jackass here.
You are claiming it is NOT possible to be proactive and find things to do. Anyone who has ever been in any hospital is well aware that there are plenty of things to do.
He keeps saying that life will rock after school is finally over and expects unrealistic things like being filthy rich and getting a ton of respect from everyone.
A big portion of our class does Medicine for the same reasons.
Already feeling sorry for the future patients . . .
Agreed.Yeah I can tell you there are dcs out there trying to milk the cow that is medicine. Don't get me wrong they are good, but they will look for ways to try and drain your wallet.
Agreed.
I would add what I heard from one of the best psychiatrists in Hungary ( in my opinion, the man is one of those mad geniuses ) : " If you do a job without passion, you can be average or good at the very bust. Greatness, however, is reserved to the passionate ones. "
I think the reason why people look at many successful and seemingly passionless persons and think that enjoying your job doesn't matter, is because passion is manifested differently by everyone : a surgeon for example is not passionate in the same way an actor is, an engineer is not passionate in the same way a philosopher is, a chef is not passionate in the same way a writer is, and so on. People are passionate in different ways.
Human behavior is very misleading when you try to analyze it according to your own personality - it is a recipe for failure.
Because you will pick a doctor for example, who is working long hours, gets a high salary, never says a thing about how he enjoys what he's doing and you'll assume that he's not , because in your mind enjoyment looks differently -> you will arrive to the false conclusion that you'll be able to have the same lifestyle as he does, but without the passion for the job, because you assume the other guy doesn't have it either, but he does - so you'll never be as great as the other guy and you'll never know why.
This is called a straw man. I didn't say "doctors are never busy". I said there are rotations where you have nothing to do. They exist in some medical schools. Sorry you were unable to comprehend this extremely simple point.
The fact that volunteer faculty members are busy is one of the main reasons shadow-only rotations exist (because they are too busy to supervise or aid you in learning various in-sundry hands-on skills).
Please, if you haven't even started medical school just STFU. You have 0 experience or basis upon which to tell me (someone who has) what the experience is or isn't like.
hey guyz listen to this M0. U just have to try hard and u fill find stuff to do! Can't believe we never realized that b4. Thanks buddy!!
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Yeah, you can go and clean the toilets, but I am not sure how much that will help one to be a good resident on day 1.I have worked full time in hospitals and outpatient clinics for >3 times the length of the clinical years of medical school. If you are in a hospital and have nothing productive to do, that is your problem.