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But what if OP's homeless friend was starving???!!!It will hurt. At the minimum, it will make you look, well, stupid, and at the worse, if you knew what you were doing, well, you were stealing.
Check the box, explain it, OWN IT and lead an exemplary life from now on, and try to get into positions of responsibility. And always have a Plan B.
And please SDNers, refrain from the "but what if OP was starving???!!!" moral equivalencies.
You've missed this particular opportunity for risk reduction. Next stop: damage control. @Goro couldn't be more right: own it and prove that you learned a lesson. Trying to explain it away won't sit well with adcoms: they'll see you as a risky candidate who doesn't accept personal responsibility for mistakes. They also won't appreciate you attempting to justify it on the basis of either personal circumstances or the perceived stupidity of the rule itself. The best approach is to say, "I did it, it was stupid and wrong, and I learned my lesson" (I'm paraphrasing here). And have a spotless track record from now on that you can point to as proof that the lesson was learned.Again, it's all about reducing risk, people.
Personally I would look at an IA like that and think "lol what a load of crap" and completely ignore it. Who hasn't taken extra food from the dining hall?
Considering you already paid for the food..
I get what you're saying, but this is still very immature reasoning. Transpose it to another scenario: "I felt like the $60 I paid at GameStop was too steep, so I took a second game to justify it." It doesn't work that way.Damn, this is harsh... I took food from my dining hall all the time (I thought it should justify ~$17 I'm paying for the meal)
I get what you're saying, but this is still very immature reasoning. Transpose it to another scenario: "I felt like the $60 I paid at GameStop was too steep, so I took a second game to justify it." It doesn't work that way.
The dining hall has the right to set whatever rules and prices it wants. If you disagree with them, there are many other affordable options for food. Flaunting the rules and then justifying the behavior is exactly the sort of thing that adcoms and residency program directors won't tolerate.
I agree on both points.It seems harsh. But if it is a rule, it’s a rule and you cannot really defend that if that is the case.
"I took some food from the dining hall. I didn't realize there was a rule against it, and I certainly wouldn't have done it had I known. Of course, looking back at it now, I can see why they'd have a rule like this, and ignorance of the law is no defense. So I have to accept responsibility for my actions, and I have to say that I've become more careful about thinking things through more fully now than I was before.".
That said, if what you took was small (snack-sized) and your school writes you up for this, they're being jerks.
I get what you're saying, but this is still very immature reasoning. Transpose it to another scenario: "I felt like the $60 I paid at GameStop was too steep, so I took a second game to justify it." It doesn't work that way.
The dining hall has the right to set whatever rules and prices it wants. If you disagree with them, there are many other affordable options for food. Flaunting the rules and then justifying the behavior is exactly the sort of thing that adcoms and residency program directors won't tolerate.
The analogy isn't for comparison to the OP, it's to respond to the attitude of entitlement underlying the use of price to justify breaking the rules. While shoplifting is more serious than breaking dining hall rules, the parallel stands.That's not a very good analogy. Your situation is actual theft, OP took some extra food from the dining hall as a college student. Chill, OP, you'll be fine.
Edit: I do agree, though, that if this does result in an IA (probably won't), that you must be 100% honest about it. Don't justify. Just own up and even in this case you'll be fine so long as you have no other red flags or character flaws in the coming years.
Many schools require students to buy meal plans. It's a captive market with no ability to engage in any sort of choice. They tell you how much it's going to cost and what you're going to get. I see nothing wrong with balancing the equation in your own favor.If you disagree with them, there are many other affordable options for food.
It shouldn't, as long as the OP responds appropriately.It's pretty absurd that something like this can prevent somebody from being a doctor.
Agreed.This is no way reflects a deep personality flaw on the part of the OP.
Ah, moral relativism, how thou rearest thy ugly head.Of course, as a medical student, I am not encouraging nor would I ever engage in or condone such an egregious moral failing as stealing a couple bucks worth of food from an upstanding, infallible institute of higher learning that surely has billions in the bank.
Don't be such a jerk about it.Lol you were caught stealing. Own it and explain it on your application.
Most people on this website seems to skip over the bolded statement. OP actions may or may not be terrible, but why him over someone with the same stats and no IA?.
I agree 100%; this is very harsh, but OP will be swimming uphill against the mindset that Adcoms will have of "why should we take a risk on this person when we have so many other people who didn't do this??".
That said, OP, sometimes you have to apply with the app you have, warts and all, and see how the cycle shakes out. There are Adcom members who believe in redemption.
But just be prepared to have your medical aspirations in stasis for awhile.
Now, I am just wondering what exactly constitutes an IA that I would have to report?? Let's say I just got a warning and had to pay some sort of fee, does that count as an IA?
Hello so I just created an account to ask this question.
I was caught putting some food in a Tupperware in the dining hall, although the rules state that you are not allowed to leave the dining hall with any food. This resulted in a meeting with a university hearing officer for breaking the rule of "Theft, unauthorized use, or unauthorized possession of property or services of another; or knowing possession of stolen property".
If charged, how bad will this look on my application? I know you get to explain what happened. It doesn't seem like a big deal once I explain it, but I feel like just looking at the charge of theft makes it seem a lot more serious than it is. Will this hurt my application in any way, or should I forget about it and not worry ? (I still plan on disclosing and explaining it if charged)
I was caught still inside the dining hall (sitting at a table) and therefore had not "stolen" the food yet since I had not left, so I'm not sure what will happen.
Now, I am just wondering what exactly constitutes an IA that I would have to report?? Let's say I just got a warning and had to pay some sort of fee, does that count as an IA?
you were stealing or taking leftovers with you?Hello so I just created an account to ask this question.
I was caught putting some food in a Tupperware in the dining hall, although the rules state that you are not allowed to leave the dining hall with any food. This resulted in a meeting with a university hearing officer for breaking the rule of "Theft, unauthorized use, or unauthorized possession of property or services of another; or knowing possession of stolen property".
If charged, how bad will this look on my application? I know you get to explain what happened. It doesn't seem like a big deal once I explain it, but I feel like just looking at the charge of theft makes it seem a lot more serious than it is. Will this hurt my application in any way, or should I forget about it and not worry ? (I still plan on disclosing and explaining it if charged)
cone Ice creamIdk what buffet you've ever been to that lets you take food home for free
Agree 100% with my learned colleague.This is interesting. You, perhaps, put the food in the Tupperware to keep it fresh before you ate it later during your meal in the dining room?? It would be an interesting alibi.
For those who think that taking food from the dining hall is no big deal, would you ask for a doggy bag at an all-you-can-eat buffet and expect to take home a second and third meal??
If you are expelled, suspended, put on probation, or charged a fine, that is most likely an IA. AAMC will tell you to check with your school administration if you are unsure.
If you get off with a warning, it might not be a IA. Again, check with your school administration to be sure.
If you do have to report this, be as explicit as possible. "I was eating dinner in the college cafeteria. I had more than I could eat on my tray and so I put half a sandwich and some grapes in a tupperware container with the intention of taking it with me to eat later. I did not realize that this was against the rules; I was stopped before I had even left the table in the cafeteria and written up for "theft". After a hearing, I was .... [state consequences]. I now know that taking leftovers from the cafeteria is strictly forbidden."
I do think that any adcom member with a heart (there are a few of us) will have pity on you and not hold this IA against you. It isn't as if you were trying to take someone's unattended electronics from a cafeteria table.
Personal drug use is not a crime against a person or property. And we were all young and stupid once too. But stupidity can only be forgiven so far.I always wonder why adcoms on SDN waive off elicit drug IAs like weed as if it's nothing yet look down on individuals who have taken food from the dining room hall.
No, I think this all comes down to subjectivity. Young and stupid is a relative phrase.Personal drug use is not a crime against a person or property. And we were all young and stupid once too. But stupidity can only be forgiven so far.
And we're not looking down on anybody; get this idea out of your head that somehow we're passing judgement in the Court of Life like some deities. We're not saying any applicant with an IA pr a transgression is a bad person....We determine fitness to be in our med schools, and touch our families when they're physicians.
I have a friend who once submitted an application that asked about any prior criminal charges. His explanation in its entirety was, "I was 12 and stupid." He got what he was applying for. If this goes as far as an IA -- which I now think is in question since the OP wasn't trying to leave the chow hall -- I think he should own it exactly as @LizzyM and @DokterMom suggested, and I certainly hope that adcoms would respond with the same degree of leniency that my friend received.If you do have to report this, be as explicit as possible. "I was eating dinner in the college cafeteria. I had more than I could eat on my tray and so I put half a sandwich and some grapes in a tupperware container with the intention of taking it with me to eat later. I did not realize that this was against the rules; I was stopped before I had even left the table in the cafeteria and written up for "theft". After a hearing, I was .... [state consequences]. I now know that taking leftovers from the cafeteria is strictly forbidden."
I do think that any adcom member with a heart (there are a few of us) will have pity on you and not hold this IA against you. It isn't as if you were trying to take someone's unattended electronics from a cafeteria table.
I used to think the same thing when I was your age. Now get off my lawn. (Sorry, couldn't resist.)Young and stupid is a relative phrase.
The point, though, is that the vendor of the food does think it's stealing. (Well, maybe not stealing, per se, but at least worth putting a poor undergrad through hell.) The problem is that the university owns both the dining facility and the applicant's collegiate file. (If anyone is tempted to go into the details of legal ownership of college records, don't. You know what I mean.) That means they can make and enforce those rules as aggressively as they want. Would officially reprimanding the OP make them a bunch of insufferable dickbags? Of course it would. But that's still their prerogative. If you go to their facility and eat their food and want them to grant you a degree, you have to play by their rules. That's just part of thinking defensively. Don't think, What do I think should happen to me if I do XYZ? Think, How badly could I get burned if I do XYZ? You need to be your own best advocate, and you need to protect yourself. An analogy, since I like those, is the students from my undergrad school who used to just walk out into the road south of campus without looking for cars (it's a road with one lane in each direction and a speed limit around 20 mph, but it does have pretty good traffic). Sure, the law said they had the right of way, but how would that help them if they became roadkill? It's better to assume the cars won't stop, and protect yourself.I don't think taking extra food from a dining hall is stealing.
Please don't try that tack. I don't think you, I, or almost anyone else around here has enough data to make that kind of assumption.This lack of hospitality and witchhunting hungry students is something I will only hear of in America.
That's very true, but you still need to think defensively. It's better to assume that all of them are inflexible and avoid anything that could even be misconstrued as making you a risky candidate. You may be able to get leniency for youthful transgressions, but you'll never be faulted for just keeping your nose clean in the first place.This is why I take the advice given on these minor IA threads with a grain of salt. Every adcom member is different, born with different values and beliefs. Whereas you might find drugs to be forgiven because all kids "are young and stupid", I guarantee there will be another who finds taking food from a dining hall as minor.
It was some smoked salmon. I had checked the menu earlier and saw that it would be served and since I hadn't had any in a while, I decided to take some out in a Tupperware, since I have seen others do this and did not know this was a rule. Apparently, some dining employee must have seen me put it into the Tupperware and then put the Tupperware into my backpack. I then continued eating and the dining employee came over and told me I was stealing, informed me of this rule, and then took down my university ID number so that the hearing officer could contact me later. He also took the Tupperware.
So I suppose there was "intent to steal", but I believe I did not technically break the rules, since the rule states that "everything must be consumed before you leave the dining area", and I had not left the dining area. However, the hearing officer contacted me later and said I had allegedly broken this rule in the student code: "Theft, unauthorized use, or unauthorized possession of property or services of another; or knowing possession of stolen property". So we'll see what happens at the hearing.
However, if this does result in disciplinary action, I will of course disclose this and explain the situation.
I don't think it's that they think you're going to become a jewel thief or a bank robber. It's got much more to do with the applicant pool. Remember: you're going up against thousands of extremely well-qualified applicants. Any infraction at all has the potential to make you less attractive than someone who's just as qualified but has no black marks on their record. When five thousand people apply for a hundred-something spots, chances are there'll be someone who fits that description.If I were an Adcom I'd definitely look down on drug use more than taking some extra food from the dining hall. If you got caught for even just pot on campus, I'm afraid that you might also have used cocaine, molly, etc. at other times but just never got caught. I don't think a similar extrapolation would be made from taking some extra food to hardcore theft.
It was some smoked salmon. I had checked the menu earlier and saw that it would be served and since I hadn't had any in a while, I decided to take some out in a Tupperware, since I have seen others do this and did not know this was a rule. Apparently, some dining employee must have seen me put it into the Tupperware and then put the Tupperware into my backpack. I then continued eating and the dining employee came over and told me I was stealing, informed me of this rule, and then took down my university ID number so that the hearing officer could contact me later. He also took the Tupperware.
So I suppose there was "intent to steal", but I believe I did not technically break the rules, since the rule states that "everything must be consumed before you leave the dining area", and I had not left the dining area. However, the hearing officer contacted me later and said I had allegedly broken this rule in the student code: "Theft, unauthorized use, or unauthorized possession of property or services of another; or knowing possession of stolen property". So we'll see what happens at the hearing.
However, if this does result in disciplinary action, I will of course disclose this and explain the situation.
Honey,It was some smoked salmon. I had checked the menu earlier and saw that it would be served and since I hadn't had any in a while, I decided to take some out in a Tupperware, since I have seen others do this and did not know this was a rule. Apparently, some dining employee must have seen me put it into the Tupperware and then put the Tupperware into my backpack. I then continued eating and the dining employee came over and told me I was stealing, informed me of this rule, and then took down my university ID number so that the hearing officer could contact me later. He also took the Tupperware.
So I suppose there was "intent to steal", but I believe I did not technically break the rules, since the rule states that "everything must be consumed before you leave the dining area", and I had not left the dining area. However, the hearing officer contacted me later and said I had allegedly broken this rule in the student code: "Theft, unauthorized use, or unauthorized possession of property or services of another; or knowing possession of stolen property". So we'll see what happens at the hearing.
However, if this does result in disciplinary action, I will of course disclose this and explain the situation.
Please don't try that tack. I don't think you, I, or almost anyone else around here has enough data to make that kind of assumption.
Socialism? Food police? I think you're in the wrong subforum.You kids should remember this when you tow the talking points socialist presidential candidates spew at your protests for more safe spaces and food police. Kinda poetic IMO. You made your bed, now lay in it.
Yeah, that is not true at all. There are laws against this very thing. I will cite Georgia law because that is where I reside.OK, so you didn't break the rule. You didn't leave the dining area with the smoked salmon-filled Tupperware container.
While you were in the dining area, that smoked salmon was yours, not the "property of another" or "stolen property." You had the right to put the smoked salmon in a Tupperware container. You had the right to put the smoked salmon on your head and wear it as a hat. You had the right to tuck the smoked salmon into your socks. It was yours, as long as you didn't leave with it -- and you didn't.
It sounds like the administration has no case against you. If they take this any further, lawyer up.
some schools have buffet style dining hall where you can eat everything you want while you are still inside. There are others where you get certain meal types and leave to eat. Then everything is yours.Wow your school is so strict. At my school people leave the dining hall with plates and silverware, not even bothering with Tupper Ware and are fine lol. No one actually wants to take any food back though. Most of the employees are super chill though so I have no idea if it's actually against the rules or not.
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The problem is they have to prove intent.Yeah, that is not true at all. There are laws against this very thing. I will cite Georgia law because that is where I reside.
O.C.G.A. 16-4-1 Criminal Attempt
"A person commits the offense of criminal attempt when, with intent to commit a specific crime, he performs any act which constitutes a substantial step toward the commission of that crime."
Putting smoked salmon in a tupperware container (purposefully brought from outside the cafeteria into it) and into the backpack is a substantial step towards the commission of stealing the tupperware. No reasonable person will put smoked salmon into tupperware and into their backpack with the intent of not taking it outside of the dining hall.
some schools have buffet style dining hall where you can eat everything you want while you are still inside. There are others where you get certain meal types and leave to eat. Then everything is yours.
Personal drug use is not a crime against a person or property. And we were all young and stupid once too. But stupidity can only be forgiven so far.
And we're not looking down on anybody; get this idea out of your head that somehow we're passing judgement in the Court of Life like some deities. We're not saying any applicant with an IA pr a transgression is a bad person....We determine fitness to be in our med schools, and touch our families when they're physicians.
While you were in the dining area, that smoked salmon was yours, not the "property of another" or "stolen property." You had the right to put the smoked salmon in a Tupperware container. You had the right to put the smoked salmon on your head and wear it as a hat. You had the right to tuck the smoked salmon into your socks. It was yours, as long as you didn't leave with it -- and you didn't.
It sounds like the administration has no case against you. If they take this any further, lawyer up.
The problem is they have to prove intent.
OP can state he wanted to study in the dining hall and put the Tupperware in his backpack so that the food could stay fresh because he planned to study there for several hours. This is not outside of reason especially since it's finals period.
I don't think it's that they think you're going to become a jewel thief or a bank robber. It's got much more to do with the applicant pool. Remember: you're going up against thousands of extremely well-qualified applicants. Any infraction at all has the potential to make you less attractive than someone who's just as qualified but has no black marks on their record. When five thousand people apply for a hundred-something spots, chances are there'll be someone who fits that description.
Legend has it that Michael DeBakey (Google him if you don't know that name) had his own elevator key at Methodist Hospital in Houston. He'd get on the elevator, kick everyone off, and then go wherever he was going. He also wore his white cowboy boots in the OR. He could get away with that stuff because he was that valuable -- not just to his own hospital, but to the medical profession in general. But the overwhelming majority of us, while still among the best and brightest, are not even close to that level and never will be. That means we all have to assume that the other guy/gal is just as good and well-qualified as we are, and avoid anything that could put us at a disadvantage. Like I said above, think defensively and protect yourself.
Lol @ people ITT making moral equivalencies between smoking weed (which automatically means you've been associated with "sketchy" people who have done harder drugs like cocaine or molly???) and "stealing" food. You're caught between a rock and a hard place OP, due to the language of your schools code of conduct, and the way these things usually progress (i.e., like another poster has said, they don't have to "prove" anything, but rather just show that it's more likely than not the case that you intended to "steal" the food).
Knowing university dining services, I think you're entitled to the food. However, be cordial, apologetic, yet understanding and firm in the meeting. Let them know that you understand that you perhaps appeared to be in violation of the code of conduct, but that in fact you never stole the food, and that you would appreciate if they could let you off with a warning. Sorry OP! Keep us updated!