Wow. You're golden and can be as picky as you can be. Your application will likely be yield-protected at places like Georgetown, GWU, Rosalind Franklin/Chicago Med, and a lot of the non-MI publics (Minnesota??? really???). Make the schools want you, and pick the schools that best position you for your future and your family's security.
You've got the path to a very selective brand (seriously T5 to T20). You probably already started applying, but make them want you. Leverage your family situation and job options for your husband/school and medical choices for children (toddlers won't stay toddlers at graduation)/proximity to family in a manner that reflects your priorities.