What updates have there been? Just because of funding threats? IMO, if you’re looking to do ENT in Minnesota, Iowa is an absolute no brainer here, especially if cost is the same. It’s a top 10 program in ENT. You’ll rub shoulders with well known faculty, earn great LORs, and have excellent home program leadership to help you network. Loyola is a fine school, but Iowa ENT is a big name everywhere, and especially in Minneapolis.
Edit: I didn't see your pro for Loyola about your SO. Are they willing to move with you for med school? Obviously that's a pretty big deal, but if there's any way to bring them with you, I think Iowa is the clear winner.