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To recap: Back in November 2017, I was living in Korea as a new father and was desperate to get back into medicine. I thought my best bet would be to get back into residency but that didn't fan out. In September 2018, I began working for a corporation that provides wound care services to patients in nursing homes. In June of 2019, I started my own private practice. Things were going well, then COVID happened. For more detail, I would refer you to the following posts:
First post on 11/30/17: CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Second post on 7/15/19: Re: CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Third post on 8/2/19: Re: CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Fourth post on 2/21/20: Second update to "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Fifth post on 8/4/21: 3rd update: "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?"
Sixth post on 11/25/2022: 2022 Update: "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?"
Seventh post on 5/20/2023: 2023 Update: "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?"
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Hi, how are you? I hope those of you who have been around from the beginning of this saga are doing well. I can't believe it's already been 7-8 years since the first post.
Since my last update in 2023, I've been on a soul searching journey about life and have come to realize who I am and what I do best in life.
Let me get to the medical career aspect of this story.
Private equity: I have been approached by 4 private equity groups in the past 1.5 years. I did not entertain the idea of trading what I have for money. I am content with life. I want to keep doing what it is I do well.
Academia: I've been invited to a couple of academic meetings where I gave presentations on the type of things that I am doing. I am embarrassed to talk about it because what I do is not really academic (I'm not doing any studies in private practice) but it's truly been a terrifying honor to be talking about my passion for wounds in front of reconstructive surgeons. My next presentation will be back in Seoul this November.
Wound care for street medicine: Back in 2023, I've alluded to volunteering to care for the unsheltered population. Since then, it has become a major part of my mission. This year, I had been invited for wound/debridement seminar for the county health department and the city fire department. Our practice won an award for a street medicine consultation program from a major academic institution in California, and the street medicine department has been instrumental in further developing our mission into that of educator/hub for other street medicine teams. I will be putting together a class for a street medicine symposium next year at the invitation of the organizers. I believe I can make a meaningful impact in this context. Pumped.
Because of the street medicine situation, I'm starting a nonprofit foundation that would make it easier for the mission to grow faster than the practice itself.
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Personally, I am doing well. I have a great work/life balance. I sometimes push myself too much but then I have room and support in my personal and professional life to be able to recover when I need to. A great family and a great team, I am thankful for.
My family is larger. We're a Brady bunch. We're happy because we can work through things. We're all healing and finding purpose and meaning.
Few years ago, my brother got in trouble with the law. When he hit rock bottom, I took him in. Gave him a job, help him pay off his debt to his friends and the family. He's rebuilding his life again. Quit smoking. Goes to gym every day.
My boy is 8 years old. He is polite and loving to everyone. Has a six pack with a kind heart. I can't be more proud. We've been going to Yosemite every year.
He asked me to catch a trout and cook it for him when he was 5. I was fishing conventional reels and that didn't work out for a couple of years. It took me a few years to get to this point, but I picked up fly fishing. I've fished in Eastern Sierra, local waters, Wyoming, and Korea.
Now, fly fishing has me contributing to conservation work - whether with money or time.
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This message is to strangers out there who are struggling with trying to figure out what it is that you want to do with life.
I have learned that the outcomes of one's life is determined by luck as much as by our own attitude and effort. No one can have more information about me than I do for myself. No one can be responsible for the choices that I make. No one can face the consequences of my own actions. All I can do is make the best educated choice and work hard to persevere until I find what it is that I'm searching for. That's what we all have been doing since the moment we left our childhood behind.
Have a philosophy - to love wisdom as life give it to you. What is important to you? What makes you move? Do words like integrity, honesty, courage, justice, fairness, respect, dignity, and love ring something true in your heart? Let those values guide you until a time when the world recognizes that you have been true and authentic to yourself. Then you'll find your true purpose.
"Integrity is one of several paths. It distinguishes itself from the others because it is the right path and the only one upon which you will never get lost." - M.H. McKee
It is hard for one's destiny to speak on the journey itself. It is the journey that reveals the truth of "who am I?" and "what have I done?"
I know I've been a fool. I know I've done wrong. It's only through the Grace of God I'm still here today. I hope you find the truth in your journey thru this crazy thing called life.
May we all find peace and purpose in this changing times.
Catch you again in another couple of years.
First post on 11/30/17: CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Second post on 7/15/19: Re: CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Third post on 8/2/19: Re: CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Fourth post on 2/21/20: Second update to "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?
Fifth post on 8/4/21: 3rd update: "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?"
Sixth post on 11/25/2022: 2022 Update: "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?"
Seventh post on 5/20/2023: 2023 Update: "CA license, but no board cert. How to get life back on track with a baby?"
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Hi, how are you? I hope those of you who have been around from the beginning of this saga are doing well. I can't believe it's already been 7-8 years since the first post.
Since my last update in 2023, I've been on a soul searching journey about life and have come to realize who I am and what I do best in life.
Let me get to the medical career aspect of this story.
Private equity: I have been approached by 4 private equity groups in the past 1.5 years. I did not entertain the idea of trading what I have for money. I am content with life. I want to keep doing what it is I do well.
Academia: I've been invited to a couple of academic meetings where I gave presentations on the type of things that I am doing. I am embarrassed to talk about it because what I do is not really academic (I'm not doing any studies in private practice) but it's truly been a terrifying honor to be talking about my passion for wounds in front of reconstructive surgeons. My next presentation will be back in Seoul this November.
Wound care for street medicine: Back in 2023, I've alluded to volunteering to care for the unsheltered population. Since then, it has become a major part of my mission. This year, I had been invited for wound/debridement seminar for the county health department and the city fire department. Our practice won an award for a street medicine consultation program from a major academic institution in California, and the street medicine department has been instrumental in further developing our mission into that of educator/hub for other street medicine teams. I will be putting together a class for a street medicine symposium next year at the invitation of the organizers. I believe I can make a meaningful impact in this context. Pumped.
Because of the street medicine situation, I'm starting a nonprofit foundation that would make it easier for the mission to grow faster than the practice itself.
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Personally, I am doing well. I have a great work/life balance. I sometimes push myself too much but then I have room and support in my personal and professional life to be able to recover when I need to. A great family and a great team, I am thankful for.
My family is larger. We're a Brady bunch. We're happy because we can work through things. We're all healing and finding purpose and meaning.
Few years ago, my brother got in trouble with the law. When he hit rock bottom, I took him in. Gave him a job, help him pay off his debt to his friends and the family. He's rebuilding his life again. Quit smoking. Goes to gym every day.
My boy is 8 years old. He is polite and loving to everyone. Has a six pack with a kind heart. I can't be more proud. We've been going to Yosemite every year.
He asked me to catch a trout and cook it for him when he was 5. I was fishing conventional reels and that didn't work out for a couple of years. It took me a few years to get to this point, but I picked up fly fishing. I've fished in Eastern Sierra, local waters, Wyoming, and Korea.
Now, fly fishing has me contributing to conservation work - whether with money or time.
-------
This message is to strangers out there who are struggling with trying to figure out what it is that you want to do with life.
I have learned that the outcomes of one's life is determined by luck as much as by our own attitude and effort. No one can have more information about me than I do for myself. No one can be responsible for the choices that I make. No one can face the consequences of my own actions. All I can do is make the best educated choice and work hard to persevere until I find what it is that I'm searching for. That's what we all have been doing since the moment we left our childhood behind.
Have a philosophy - to love wisdom as life give it to you. What is important to you? What makes you move? Do words like integrity, honesty, courage, justice, fairness, respect, dignity, and love ring something true in your heart? Let those values guide you until a time when the world recognizes that you have been true and authentic to yourself. Then you'll find your true purpose.
"Integrity is one of several paths. It distinguishes itself from the others because it is the right path and the only one upon which you will never get lost." - M.H. McKee
It is hard for one's destiny to speak on the journey itself. It is the journey that reveals the truth of "who am I?" and "what have I done?"
I know I've been a fool. I know I've done wrong. It's only through the Grace of God I'm still here today. I hope you find the truth in your journey thru this crazy thing called life.
May we all find peace and purpose in this changing times.
Catch you again in another couple of years.