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Originally posted by smartreader
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Oh, OK. let me clarify.
I most certainly do not have a "religious motivation in my approach to treating a patient." In fact, the opposite is true. I decided to become a physician primarily for the money and the job security. (But that is a different arguement. Let's not go there.)
Earlier I implied that I was not a perfect Christian and I want to emphasise that for the most part I really don't care what my patients do as long as they are compliant with their treatment. I am no saint. And I am not a social crusader. I like most of my patients but I feel sorry for many of them and am tremendously interested in the freakish stories they have to tell.
And even if they're not compliant, hey, I can't follow them home and force them to take their pills. So I am very "laissez faire" when it comes to my fellow sinners.
Not to mention that anybody who has spent five minutes in an urban charity hospital would see the futility of trying to change anybody's morals.
But I draw the line at certain things. Abortion is one of them. (Nothing else comes to mind immediatlely.) And since I absolutely believe that abortion is murder, I cannot just "look the other way" and condone the practice by participating in it. This includes counseling, referring, and driving them to the abortion clinic.
(And you better believe before I applied to our two State Medical Schools I made good and sure that "abortion training" was not required in the curriculum.)
But that is not the same thing as "preaching" to patients. On the few occasions when women have asked me for advice on obtaining an abortion I simply told them that my religious beliefs forbid me from taking any part in the practice including referring them or telling them where to go. Period. I Don't recall that I called down fire and brimstone or threatened them with all nine levels of hell including Duluth on a Tuesday night.
I believe one woman was offended by my answer. The others apologized for putting me on the spot. One young girl was being more-or-less forced by her mother to have an abortion but wanted to keep the baby and she seemed relieved that a Doctor (well, student doctor) held views which mirrored her own.
I even had a patient who was a rape victim but decided to keep the baby because she was a devout Christian. I did not hesitate to tell her that I thought she was doing the right thing and that her simple but strong convictions put the rest of us to shame.
Now, I think some of you are confused. I certainly would counsel a woman with a tubal pregnancy that one of her options was elective abortion. Or a woman with a condition which is exacerbated by pregnancy to such an extent that her life is in danger. Then it really is a matter of choice. But some women will suprise you. I believe my wife would sacrifice her life for any one of our children.
My sister-in-law, by the way, refused an elective abortion for an ectopic pregnancy and nearly bled to death in the fourth month. But that was her choice. An ill-informed choice, I believe, given that it was a tubal pregnancy. (I believe that only an omental implantation has any chance of being carried to term. The tubes just don't have the blood supply for a large placenta.)
But I guarentee that she has a clean conscience.