Hi all,
I'm in my first quarter of my sophomore year at a private university. I'd previously been going to community college. I'm non-traditional due to some struggles in my teenage years I'd rather not get into right now. Long story short, I didn't attend high school. later paid for an unaccredited diploma for community college and eventually took my GED (for college admission purposes for transferring).
I'm surrounded by students who took many AP classes in high school and consistently scoring higher than me. I'd never had a biology class or chemistry class prior to this year. I'm clueless how to adjust my study habits (I don't think I've really developed any..). I'm struggling with not comparing myself to other students who, on the surface seem like golden kids. I'm very stressed about my GPA and concerned about when I take organic chemistry and physics in the coming quarters as I figure if I'm struggling and making mostly Bs/some As now, it's only going to get harder and my GPA will decline as time goes on.
I guess I'm looking for advice for self-esteem, ideal amount of hours I should be studying for classes, a decent GPA to aim for with realistic expectations. On top of everything, I don't know how to include research, as I've been really busy and the idea of adding something on top of that seems overwhelming. I work a little on the weekends (for money) but had to quit my other jobs and volunteering gig (for now). I'm constantly tired and it's a long commute from school to home. I wonder if I made the right decision in transferring to a university that challenges me more rather than trying to continue my education at the state school (which was linked to the community college I went to). I feel like I'm not doing myself any favors by looking for "easier" classes in the long run, though.
Any input is greatly appreciated. Thanks.
I'm in my first quarter of my sophomore year at a private university. I'd previously been going to community college. I'm non-traditional due to some struggles in my teenage years I'd rather not get into right now. Long story short, I didn't attend high school. later paid for an unaccredited diploma for community college and eventually took my GED (for college admission purposes for transferring).
I'm surrounded by students who took many AP classes in high school and consistently scoring higher than me. I'd never had a biology class or chemistry class prior to this year. I'm clueless how to adjust my study habits (I don't think I've really developed any..). I'm struggling with not comparing myself to other students who, on the surface seem like golden kids. I'm very stressed about my GPA and concerned about when I take organic chemistry and physics in the coming quarters as I figure if I'm struggling and making mostly Bs/some As now, it's only going to get harder and my GPA will decline as time goes on.
I guess I'm looking for advice for self-esteem, ideal amount of hours I should be studying for classes, a decent GPA to aim for with realistic expectations. On top of everything, I don't know how to include research, as I've been really busy and the idea of adding something on top of that seems overwhelming. I work a little on the weekends (for money) but had to quit my other jobs and volunteering gig (for now). I'm constantly tired and it's a long commute from school to home. I wonder if I made the right decision in transferring to a university that challenges me more rather than trying to continue my education at the state school (which was linked to the community college I went to). I feel like I'm not doing myself any favors by looking for "easier" classes in the long run, though.
Any input is greatly appreciated. Thanks.