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I shadowed an orthopedic surgeon over the summer in an outpatient setting owned by one of those large healthcare conglomerates. It was a phenomenal experience. And it really laid to rest my previously held belief that the job makes surgeons disillusioned, grumpy, and humorless (based on other doctors I had met). He was such a great guy, and an even better doctor. I could see myself doing what he does and being good at it.
And then one day one of the staff walks in to pile 3 more cases onto his already-overflowing schedule. He disappointedly accepts the cases, figures out where to fit them sideways into his schedule, and says "I'm probably headed for divorce." Then proceeds to tell me how 4 of his colleagues in that same office are already divorced. That really put the brakes on my pursuit of a career in surgery.
He works 4am to 8pm (sometimes later) 6-7 days a week. He's probably 7-10 years out of residency (so not new).
I understand there is a call of duty. These people are sick and you can help them. They need you. But your family needs you too. Your body also needs rest, exercise, and proper nutrition.
Is it just a matter of saying no and setting boundaries? What other advice can you give to me? (pretend I'm a surgeon seeking a better work-life balance)
I've read other lifestyle posts on these forums claiming that there are surgeons working 30 hour work weeks. I've never heard of or met a surgeon (or any other specialty) working so little in medicine. Are these edge cases? Does it happen only in the late stages of a career? Are the earnings still good?
And then one day one of the staff walks in to pile 3 more cases onto his already-overflowing schedule. He disappointedly accepts the cases, figures out where to fit them sideways into his schedule, and says "I'm probably headed for divorce." Then proceeds to tell me how 4 of his colleagues in that same office are already divorced. That really put the brakes on my pursuit of a career in surgery.
He works 4am to 8pm (sometimes later) 6-7 days a week. He's probably 7-10 years out of residency (so not new).
I understand there is a call of duty. These people are sick and you can help them. They need you. But your family needs you too. Your body also needs rest, exercise, and proper nutrition.
Is it just a matter of saying no and setting boundaries? What other advice can you give to me? (pretend I'm a surgeon seeking a better work-life balance)
I've read other lifestyle posts on these forums claiming that there are surgeons working 30 hour work weeks. I've never heard of or met a surgeon (or any other specialty) working so little in medicine. Are these edge cases? Does it happen only in the late stages of a career? Are the earnings still good?