In every case, there will be things outside of your control. The people you meet and interview with will have biases for and against you. You can't please everyone...Just ask PAZ...
Drusso's thinly veiled reference is to an event which took place after I was displaced by Katrina, and was emailing program directors across the nation to find a spot to finish my residency training. In that circumstance, with the clock ticking (we had to be back in a program a month after the storm), I pushed as hard as I could at virtually every program that responded to my initial inquiry.
The University of Virginia, Temple, and Einstein, and EVMS took the bull by the horns, and gave me an offer by the end of the second week aftr the storm. For that I will be forever grateful, and if you are looking for programs with compassion, I strongly urge you to consider each of them.
Several other schools expressed a willingness to help, but had to work out the logistics of funding me for three months of training. In Mayo's case, I pushed hard because I thought it would be an excellent opportunity to be exposed to great teachers for three months.
As the ACGMEs deadline to resume training fast approached, and no definitive response forthcoming from places like Mayo and Kessler, I called the GME offices at those two institutions to address the issue directly, rathe4r than waiting for it to percolate through appropriate channels. I got a call back from Dr. Garstang who let me know they were moving heaven and earth to make things happen, but it might not be timely, so if I had a position in hand, I should go ahead and take it.
Mayo, on the other hand, took offence at the notion that I had not done things through proper channels and at their pace. In fact, I received a not so thinly veiled email from Dr. Moutvic letting me know that they would no longer consider me, and that perhaps my aggressive, pushy approach might not be a good fit for their more Midwestern Mayo way
The above is a long-winded way of saying dont just go for the biggest name, regardless of reputation and prestige, pick a program that fits your personality best. It is 3-4 years, and even if I had pushed my way into Mayos program, and had the privilege of working with folks of their caliber, they are probably right that my personality might not have gelled well in their milieu. It took me about a day to recoil from the perceived insults I read into Dr. Moutvics letter, but in the end, I recognized she had done me a service, and I appreciated her candor, even if I was disappointed at her lack of compassion.