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Hi, I am a senior out of high school and for the last few days I've been super frustrated and completely lost about what to do.
Here's my situation:
I applied and got into my "dream" school (out-of-state public school) and I decided to go there. I knew that it was going to be expensive but I was so enamored with the idea of it that I decided to go ahead with it anyway (this was my first mistake). I filled out the FAFSA and I qualified for enough aid for me to go there. However, a big chunk of that aid (upwards of 30k) was the Parent loan and my parents and I recently decided to reject it because it would have been a huge financial burden for them (because of recent financial hardships). So now, I am struggling to find a way to cover that 30k+ difference in order to pay for my first year of undergrad.
I am just really lost about how to go about this and how the implications of my choices affects my aspiration to go to medical school. I have a couple of options - none of which seem appealing to me:
1. Apply for a private loan that is only in my name (with a cosigner maybe) that allows deferment until after I graduate. This would have to cover the 30k+ that I currently lack.
2. Withdraw from my university and enroll in my local community college for the first 2 years of undergrad and transfer to my state university.
3. Withdraw from my university and take a year off from schooling and then applying to my state university next cycle.
I am tempted to go with option 1 because I've come all this way and I don't want for it to be nothing but I've heard pretty bad things about private student loans so I'm not too sure. I realize that this could have all been avoided had it not been for my naivety but that's where I am now and I need advice on how to proceed. I don't really blame my parents at all because they are, for the most part, oblivious to how college-related things work.
Any advice/response is appreciated. Please help.
(If this isn't the right part of the forum, please move it to the correct place. Thank you!)
Here's my situation:
I applied and got into my "dream" school (out-of-state public school) and I decided to go there. I knew that it was going to be expensive but I was so enamored with the idea of it that I decided to go ahead with it anyway (this was my first mistake). I filled out the FAFSA and I qualified for enough aid for me to go there. However, a big chunk of that aid (upwards of 30k) was the Parent loan and my parents and I recently decided to reject it because it would have been a huge financial burden for them (because of recent financial hardships). So now, I am struggling to find a way to cover that 30k+ difference in order to pay for my first year of undergrad.
I am just really lost about how to go about this and how the implications of my choices affects my aspiration to go to medical school. I have a couple of options - none of which seem appealing to me:
1. Apply for a private loan that is only in my name (with a cosigner maybe) that allows deferment until after I graduate. This would have to cover the 30k+ that I currently lack.
2. Withdraw from my university and enroll in my local community college for the first 2 years of undergrad and transfer to my state university.
3. Withdraw from my university and take a year off from schooling and then applying to my state university next cycle.
I am tempted to go with option 1 because I've come all this way and I don't want for it to be nothing but I've heard pretty bad things about private student loans so I'm not too sure. I realize that this could have all been avoided had it not been for my naivety but that's where I am now and I need advice on how to proceed. I don't really blame my parents at all because they are, for the most part, oblivious to how college-related things work.
Any advice/response is appreciated. Please help.
(If this isn't the right part of the forum, please move it to the correct place. Thank you!)