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Hey I need some advice. As some of you know Im getting married next year and in the midst of planning the wedding. Ive decided to go back to school and finish up m MA-Psychology as I was in another program for Forensic Psychology before but stopped due to the stress and high demands of my current job. I found a program that would allow me to complete my MA in about a year but it is a DAY program and they dont have evening courses. A benefit of this program is that I am able to fill all the PRErequisites/recommended/required courses for the PHD/PsyD programs because I was not a Psychology major in undergrad (Criminal Justice).
Fast Forward....
I appraoched my job to let them know of my intentions to return to school and after some finegling it just wouldnt work out. So ive applied to some part time positions (I cant feasibly work full time in this program unless it is totally BS position) and interviewed, the second interview is coming some point this week or next week. Im starting to feel guilty because I LOVE my team, the job and everything about it. The CEO is sending us to the beach in NC to relax just as a TREAT! They paid for us all to go to Wolf Trap out here and we go to happy hours regularly. So as you can see we are a cohesive unit here (we're social workers). I dont want to leave but I WANT MY MASTERS ALREADY!! Ive started and stopped so many times and with getting married babies are no doubt fair game and I wanted to have themAFTER I at least have my masters degree.
Another option is that I could just take community college classes to fill the PRErequisites for the program but STILL in a year I wouldnt have a Masters and that gives no guarantee that Ill get in to the PsyD/PHD programs I plan to apply to. Eventhough you get a MAsters on your way to the doctorate while in any PsyD/PHD program.
My goal is to at least have my masters just in case I dont get accepted....or just dont go for whatever reasons. Im questioning the move to go to a part time job because im planning a wedding and buying a house and that takes MONEY...MOOOLAH!! Id be receiving a significant cut in salary by going part time but I dont have that many bills so im OK with it...its just the wedding planning and buying the house that scares me...no extra money for MUCH! MY fiance is also in grad school and taken a job that will allow him to go to class in the days and they pay for school so he is set. BUT still, as you guess it doesnt pay GREAT because of those perks.
What should I do? Should I leave the FT job if offered a position PT or should I just stay work full time and take community college classes to fulfill the prereqs?
Pros of going back now:
**I would get my Masters in a year
**Fulfill the prereqs for the doctoral program
**I'll be able to get more competitive jobs after obtaining the masters
Cons:
**Part time job...less money
**Potentially pissing off my supervisor and clinical director by telling them Im leaving
**Leaving my GREAT team
If I were to compromise:
**Requirements would be fulfilled and I can apply this year for the doctoral program
**NO masters to fall back on if I dont get accepted
**I get to stay with my team and still make FT money enabling me to help cover costs for the wedding and housebuying
Fast Forward....
I appraoched my job to let them know of my intentions to return to school and after some finegling it just wouldnt work out. So ive applied to some part time positions (I cant feasibly work full time in this program unless it is totally BS position) and interviewed, the second interview is coming some point this week or next week. Im starting to feel guilty because I LOVE my team, the job and everything about it. The CEO is sending us to the beach in NC to relax just as a TREAT! They paid for us all to go to Wolf Trap out here and we go to happy hours regularly. So as you can see we are a cohesive unit here (we're social workers). I dont want to leave but I WANT MY MASTERS ALREADY!! Ive started and stopped so many times and with getting married babies are no doubt fair game and I wanted to have themAFTER I at least have my masters degree.
Another option is that I could just take community college classes to fill the PRErequisites for the program but STILL in a year I wouldnt have a Masters and that gives no guarantee that Ill get in to the PsyD/PHD programs I plan to apply to. Eventhough you get a MAsters on your way to the doctorate while in any PsyD/PHD program.
My goal is to at least have my masters just in case I dont get accepted....or just dont go for whatever reasons. Im questioning the move to go to a part time job because im planning a wedding and buying a house and that takes MONEY...MOOOLAH!! Id be receiving a significant cut in salary by going part time but I dont have that many bills so im OK with it...its just the wedding planning and buying the house that scares me...no extra money for MUCH! MY fiance is also in grad school and taken a job that will allow him to go to class in the days and they pay for school so he is set. BUT still, as you guess it doesnt pay GREAT because of those perks.
What should I do? Should I leave the FT job if offered a position PT or should I just stay work full time and take community college classes to fulfill the prereqs?
Pros of going back now:
**I would get my Masters in a year
**Fulfill the prereqs for the doctoral program
**I'll be able to get more competitive jobs after obtaining the masters
Cons:
**Part time job...less money
**Potentially pissing off my supervisor and clinical director by telling them Im leaving
**Leaving my GREAT team
If I were to compromise:
**Requirements would be fulfilled and I can apply this year for the doctoral program
**NO masters to fall back on if I dont get accepted
**I get to stay with my team and still make FT money enabling me to help cover costs for the wedding and housebuying