Madame Lulu, I know I should ignore this ***** but I realized that quite a few people have/will read this post, I thought it was important for someone to briefly clarify certain things.
First, it is supremely ignorant to believe that 300+ years of oppression and repression can be erased within the 40 years that black people have gained "civil rights" in this county. There is still significant social, economic and racial disparities within our society that have not yet been ameliorated. So for someone to say that we are or should be already on a level playing field is ludicrous.
It is always amusing to see non URMs whine about the unfairness of AA. But yet they never complain about the benefits they receive in life b/c they're not URM. They receive higher paying jobs, they receive less police harassment, banks are more willing to give them loans and help them with home ownership, they can walk into stores without people watching everything they do, and I could go on and on forever. These people would never want to walk a day in my shoes, live in the "urban" neighborhood I live in, go to the crummy public schools that I went to but yet they want to diminish my accomplishment of getting into medical school b/c it is "unfair" to them.
If you want a scapegoat to blame for taking your spot at your dream medical school why don't you blame the legacy students, who get in b/c their parents are alums, their grand daddy built the library or their uncle is a professor. Or better yet why, don't you examine the real reason you or your "over qualified" buddy didn't get into school. Maybe it's not URMs or legacy kids, maybe it's just YOU.