Any alternatives that are as effective or better, in your personal experience? I know CBT is less effective. I'm still in training but I am having difficulty with some of DBT's strategies, for instance, with maintaining the balance between validating and encouraging change. I think it would take a decade to validate some of these folks enough before you can push for meaningful lasting change. Unlike a neurotic who regresses briefly to an earlier stage, a borderline pt has a certain regressed structure in place and it's rock solid; sometimes it feels like even with DBT all I'm doing is throwing tons of construction material that will stick for a minute or two but soon fall through all the cracks, and roll down the misshapen scaffolding.