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I'm a third year medical student currently on peds wards, and I have an issue with the residents that I'd like to ask you all about.
We have a very inquisitive, kind, and intelligent (not belligerent) family who is always asking us about our management of a patient with a very rare autoimmune condition. These people are professors at a local university, but have very little medical knowledge. Nonetheless, they want to know everything there is to know about the condition their child has because they want to manage it appropriately when they go home from the hospital. On the second day of admission, an ultrasound showed a hyperechoic liver, which was listed as abnormal by the radiologist and further clinical investigation was recommended. The family asked me for the results from this test, and what specifically it showed.
Thing is, I had nowhere to hide; no smoke and mirrors to throw up. I couldn't say "I don't know" because I *did* know; I looked at the report just a few minutes ago. I couldn't say "It was normal" because it wasn't normal. So, I told them that the ultrasound showed a brighter-than-normal liver, and we weren't sure what that meant just yet in his care. I alleviated their concerns by saying it could be a variant of normal, but we'd know more when more tests came back. They were fine with that. (Really, they were.)
So, I left the room and went back to the resident workroom, where the intern asked me what I learned. I told them that the patient was fine for now, and that we talked about the labs that were ordered. The intern replied "What did you tell them?" And I told the whole story.
We then rounded, and in the patients' room the family had their usual number of (respectful) questions about plans, how their child got the disease, what could be expected in the future, and finally a single question about the abdominal ultrasound. One resident said "It was totally normal." Later in the discussion, a senior resident said that the liver was bright due to inflammation. The family accepted that response and was fine with the plan. (Like I said, this family is actually really good. Just very inquisitive.)
Well, after rounds, the same resident that said the test was "normal" then talked to us about "knowing exactly what we're going to tell the patient before we walk in the room so we don't look like we don't know what we're talking about." That resident spoke along the same lines multiple times for the remainder of that patient's stay, as did the intern.
I knew they were talking about my actions, but for the life of me I couldn't get a straight answer out of them as to what exactly they wanted me to do. What should I tell an inquisitive family? Should I lie? Deflect? Honestly the thought crossed my mind that maybe I should just make a habit of not looking at the lab results before I go in to see the patient so that I can honestly say I don't know, but then how exactly am I being "that patient's doctor" as my attending so earnestly tells me I should be?
(And I can't forget that these residents are evaluating me. Their perspective on my performance carries a great deal of weight when it comes to my clerkship grade, dean's letter, and most importantly matching into my chosen specialty.)
TL;DR How do I be a doctor to my patients while not pissing off the residents above me by telling patients more than the residents feel they need to know
We have a very inquisitive, kind, and intelligent (not belligerent) family who is always asking us about our management of a patient with a very rare autoimmune condition. These people are professors at a local university, but have very little medical knowledge. Nonetheless, they want to know everything there is to know about the condition their child has because they want to manage it appropriately when they go home from the hospital. On the second day of admission, an ultrasound showed a hyperechoic liver, which was listed as abnormal by the radiologist and further clinical investigation was recommended. The family asked me for the results from this test, and what specifically it showed.
Thing is, I had nowhere to hide; no smoke and mirrors to throw up. I couldn't say "I don't know" because I *did* know; I looked at the report just a few minutes ago. I couldn't say "It was normal" because it wasn't normal. So, I told them that the ultrasound showed a brighter-than-normal liver, and we weren't sure what that meant just yet in his care. I alleviated their concerns by saying it could be a variant of normal, but we'd know more when more tests came back. They were fine with that. (Really, they were.)
So, I left the room and went back to the resident workroom, where the intern asked me what I learned. I told them that the patient was fine for now, and that we talked about the labs that were ordered. The intern replied "What did you tell them?" And I told the whole story.
We then rounded, and in the patients' room the family had their usual number of (respectful) questions about plans, how their child got the disease, what could be expected in the future, and finally a single question about the abdominal ultrasound. One resident said "It was totally normal." Later in the discussion, a senior resident said that the liver was bright due to inflammation. The family accepted that response and was fine with the plan. (Like I said, this family is actually really good. Just very inquisitive.)
Well, after rounds, the same resident that said the test was "normal" then talked to us about "knowing exactly what we're going to tell the patient before we walk in the room so we don't look like we don't know what we're talking about." That resident spoke along the same lines multiple times for the remainder of that patient's stay, as did the intern.
I knew they were talking about my actions, but for the life of me I couldn't get a straight answer out of them as to what exactly they wanted me to do. What should I tell an inquisitive family? Should I lie? Deflect? Honestly the thought crossed my mind that maybe I should just make a habit of not looking at the lab results before I go in to see the patient so that I can honestly say I don't know, but then how exactly am I being "that patient's doctor" as my attending so earnestly tells me I should be?
(And I can't forget that these residents are evaluating me. Their perspective on my performance carries a great deal of weight when it comes to my clerkship grade, dean's letter, and most importantly matching into my chosen specialty.)
TL;DR How do I be a doctor to my patients while not pissing off the residents above me by telling patients more than the residents feel they need to know
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