My boyfriend of nearly 5 years has a really obnoxious friend. He's one of those that thinks doctors are a bunch of ungrateful capitalists that live life cush. Not to undermine this friend, but he only has a bachelors, he doesn't even know what graduate education is like.
He constantly talks about how he thinks being a doctor is easy. When we talked about me searching for residencies and my being careful about malignant programs, he brushes it off as "overreacting" and "rumors". He rolls his eyes when he hears me talking with my bf about my 30 hour call. He asks me stupid medical questions expecting me to be a walking Netter's and for free medical care.
I doubt my bf will leave me over this but he really wants me to be the type of partner that can hang with his friends. Last night, my bf brought up the topic of residency and when I answered him, this friend puts down everything I say. I have had it, shot the friend a dirty look, politely thanked his wife, and told my bf it is time for us to go.
BF(confrontationally): What is the problem?
Me: I can't stand him.
BF: Why?
Me: Because your friend is an idiot.
I tell my bf that I don't care if they hang, but I just don't wanna hang with him. I repeatedly told my bf in the past I am not interested in hanging around this friend. He's still upset over it. I think I'm reasonable =/.
P.S. Yes, this is a more personal question, but seems like this forum is a best coming from other med students.
He constantly talks about how he thinks being a doctor is easy. When we talked about me searching for residencies and my being careful about malignant programs, he brushes it off as "overreacting" and "rumors". He rolls his eyes when he hears me talking with my bf about my 30 hour call. He asks me stupid medical questions expecting me to be a walking Netter's and for free medical care.
I doubt my bf will leave me over this but he really wants me to be the type of partner that can hang with his friends. Last night, my bf brought up the topic of residency and when I answered him, this friend puts down everything I say. I have had it, shot the friend a dirty look, politely thanked his wife, and told my bf it is time for us to go.
BF(confrontationally): What is the problem?
Me: I can't stand him.
BF: Why?
Me: Because your friend is an idiot.
I tell my bf that I don't care if they hang, but I just don't wanna hang with him. I repeatedly told my bf in the past I am not interested in hanging around this friend. He's still upset over it. I think I'm reasonable =/.
P.S. Yes, this is a more personal question, but seems like this forum is a best coming from other med students.