so if i'm not hospitible and can't cook, does that make me less filipino?
filipinos and the american healthcare system is a big issue. put into the mix filipino americans pursuing a health career and there is another element of stress and confusion. maybe its the fact that i'm a liberal arts major, or have had bad experiences, or maybe i know to much/little, but i hate stereotypes, good and bad. even though ~10% of US nurses are filipinos, it seems like everyone knows one and has tasted our food. perhaps i am over-reacting, but its these suddle nuances that i can't get over. for example, i work/volunteer at a hospital here in seattle. many filipinos like at many hospitals, are 1st generation and do not work the most glamourous jobs. there are nurses, custodians, transporters, office staff, and very few physicians. i give them the utmost respect for doing what they have to do for their families here and back home in the philippines, so when i see a coworker act condescending to a filipino or any other recent immigrant with statements like that above or even so much as make fun of accents, even though they don't intend to cause any harm. it still gets to me.
its seems almost automatic that just because someone thinks they "know" a filipino they are free from being prejudice or discriminatory, likewise, because i am filipino i am automatically boxed into a certain category and stereotype. one such experience was when i was researching x-rays with another co-worker and an x-ray tech in a sarcastic tone said "what, are you going to be a physician or something?", or when i saw a non-filipino nurse talk to a custodian who can speak perfect english used the sweeping motion while saying "clean-clean" please. crap like that.
i guess the whole point of this post is to educate the future physicians who no doubt will be encountering a filipino in the healthcare setting, or anybody at all that is of a different culture. stereotypes are not cool. and even though the person may appear to not take offense, they or another onlooker still may.
also, if any other filams want to talk about similar experiences like mine, it would be dope to start a dialogue.