You have admitted you have a problem with authority yet you recite some aspects of things given by authorities which have been proven false in the past. How interesting. I would not want a person who has a problem with authority in authority, but that is just me.
Your vagaries are just that: empty and ambiguous enough to hide behind. What has been "proven" false in the past? And what have I recited? Please, do share.
And I'm very happy to hear you most likely will never be in any position of authority, as you are using anecdotal evidence as your primary comfort blanket, rather than more reliable (and scientific) data. We need more physicians, not wives' tales of ginger root. That's not just me, that's globally.
It's amusing how I don't think anyone has actually answered the contradictory advice question on this post which was basically coming down to what the heck is up with school 2 and whether or not I should throw them out as an outlier and keep my research/teaching/community service. This isn't a WAMC issue and never has been. Luckily people did email me their experiences so I know this has happened in the past.
I did, and a few others in this thread did. Your continued desire to dismiss anything negative and hold on dearly to confirmation bias made you blind to it. In short,
"they probably are not telling you about the elephant in the room." Your attitude needs to be more objective. Stop defending yourself so much. If you want to believe the contradictory information is a sign that there's nothing wrong with you, but something wrong with admissions committees, that's your prerogative. Unfortunately, the truth doesn't care what your beliefs are.
Almost getting in is NOT the same as getting in. Being so close is not the same as being accepted. The sum of your application does not equal the whole, and in the case of reapplicants, is less.
It's great you have heard from the grapevine a story of one person, who, after 10 years, managed to get in. If that's what you want to try for, great. I would heed you, though, that people who share those stories pretend it's a "I OVERCAME ALL" adversity story. They omit the critical part of - say - "well, someone I know or my family knows finally came into a position of power and could hook me up." I don't mean your weak links to people who have made offers to "help" you without promises, but literally those people who say, "Hey, apply, and you're in, guaranteed." UMDNJ had accepted a student with a 24 MCAT and sub 3.0 GPA in 2004 (or 2002) who had just that.
I too have anecdotal stories that make your stories look like the little leagues. I don't rely on them, though. You can feel free to ignore the statistical likelihood of nth-time reapplicant acceptance rates with all the harrowing tales you like, but it won't change the odds.
So it's clear
: AdComs are telling you the small things you can fix, but there's probably something bigger they are avoiding discussing.