tatabox80 said:
Hi all,
I'm currently a 3rd year student that is very interested in pathology. My only hang up with completely committing to path at this point is the whole idea of not having patients. I was just wondering if anyone that is on here that is either a path resident or knows someone in the field that regrets their choice, and if so, why? Thanks
Perspective, my friend, is a very important thing.
If you are 20, things are all rosy....you are free as a bird, drink, womanize (or man-nize), Have folks who back you up and you wouldnt want to be nothing more than a Superman and have the world adore you for your brilliance.
It'd difficult to be anything other than a hot shot Cardiac, Neuro or Plastic Surgeon.....(After all, what s more cool than that super duper Brain doctor on Grey s anatomy)
If you are 25, perhaps you have been through a few girlfriends/boyfriends, some nice, some bitter and some plain ugly. Finances seem to be a bit painful,Things suddenly dont seem to be that rosy anymore. You begin to wonder, " Maybe there IS a dark side to all of this after all..."
Gas doesnt seem to be that bad after all or maybe even PM and R since you get to see patients, make decent money....though you d still like to be that bad ass Surgeon (with a few doubts)
If you are 30, you have been through medical school. You are **** deep in debt, haven't got laid forever. Deal with all sorts of people, some begging for drugs, some for attention and what not. All are uniformly painful. You are cynical. The optimism is lost, you sole motivation is to make ****loads of money and get rid of the debt,marry a hot chick, build your palace and get your swanky car. But do you have it in you to deal with it day in and day out?
You are ready to get into any speciality and it doesnt matter which one you get into since you dont give a flying crap about compassion. All you want is the money.Surgical side or Medical side?? Gas or Rad Onc?? Radio or Path?? Well it depends. Are you an AMG or an FMG? did you rock on your steps? Did you suckup gloriously during your rotations?....Just some of the things which decide where you go....
If you are 35 with a bunch of kids and spouse, you just want get to the end of the finishing line....
Point is.....I dare you to show a compassionate physician over the age of 40 whose sole motivation is the well being of patient and nothing else. Someone who is so dedicated no matter what.
Reality, my friend is what gives you perspective....
No matter what, you are cursed to end up being cynical. Ever wonder why Medicine has the highest rate of suicide among any profession?
Do what Y-O-U love.....End of story and rant.