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So here's my situation...I'm living in California right now with by boyfriend. We've been together for two years and probably will get engaged soon. He has a ten year old son who lives with his mother, but we have him every other weekend. Applying to schools this year has been really taxing on my emotions. I obviously want to stay with my boyfriend and he has agreed to move where ever we have to. Which is great! But I want both of us to be happy, and I know he probably wouldn't be happy at certain places. Plus if we move too far away, it would be hard on his son. So I'm torn right now. I really want a change of scenery, maybe New York, I've had a couple of interviews there. But it would probably be much easier on all of us if I could stay in San Francisco. I've just been working as a lab tech here for almost three years and would like to try something new. I feel like if I get into a school in California vs. a school on the East Coast it would be very selfish of me to decide we should move to the East Coast, not to mention the guilt I would feel over separating a very sweet ten year old boy from his father.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm sure there are a lot of people in similar situations with significant others/spouses/kids to consider in their decision. How have you weighed your happiness and career future with your spouse's happiness? Thanks
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm sure there are a lot of people in similar situations with significant others/spouses/kids to consider in their decision. How have you weighed your happiness and career future with your spouse's happiness? Thanks