Are interviewers tired of this interview Q's response?

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Q: "What's your greatest weakness?"

A: "Being a perfectionist ..."

this seems like something safe to say in response to this question, but do interviewers roll their eyes when they hear this response?

What would be another safe (unharmful) weakness to talk about? How do you approach this question?
 
this seems like something safe to say in response to this question, but do interviewers roll their eyes when they hear this response?
It's so awful, I've quit asking.
 
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A good answer is a real weakness that you have identified are already working on improving. For example, "I get nervous about giving presentations, but I joined Toastmasters and volunteered to give presentations to new members in my extra-curricular club."

Med schools expect you to be human and have real flaws just like everyone else. It's much better to demonstrate that you're capable of acknowledging your flaws and working on them, than to pretend you don't have any.
 
Q: "What's your greatest weakness?"

A: "Being a perfectionist ..."

this seems like something safe to say in response to this question, but do interviewers roll their eyes when they hear this response?

What would be another safe (unharmful) weakness to talk about? How do you approach this question?
I never answered this question in this way. I typically would go out on a limb and give one of my (many) real weaknesses. I found that interviewers tended to be interested in my analysis of myself - how unforgiving and uncompromising I was - and I think most of them appreciated my candid responses. Of course, you never end your answer on the weakness; you have to analyze the weakness quickly and then detail how you go about dealing with them.

I feel like, in order to have good responses to these questions, you gotta think of your shortcomings as early on as possible, and then spend some real time trying to ameliorate them. Sometimes digging back into the past can yield useful ideas, but (just like in research) prospective studies are better the retrospective ones. This advice may not be novel, (useful, insightful, or original) and it may be coming too close to the application cycle to be useful, but take it for what it's worth.

EDIT: Just like @meander said, I think the key is to analyze the mistakes/failings in such a way so as to allow yourself to talk about how you overcome them. Listing real, human flaws shouldn't be a huge problem - even attendings aren't perfect 😉 - as long as you make it damn clear that you're aware of your shortcomings and you're working really hard to be a better person/future physician.
 
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a fellow senior resident in my program asked every residency applicant during interviews, "would you rather be Superman or Batman?" ... "that way if they pick Superman, I know they're lazy and want things the easy way"

I seriously wonder about her sometimes.
I LOVE this! (Seriously, Superman is boring to even read about, who'd want to be him? Though he can fly, and flying is my dream superpower.)
 
The thing is, perfectionism actually is my biggest weakness and anyone who knows me will tell you that. I had OCD growing up and while the rituals are gone, the perfectionism remains. It makes me slow at everything and I miss deadlines on a regular basis. So...is it better to be dishonest about my biggest weakness if the honest answer will make everyone roll their eyes and note that I "lack introspection"? (Rhetorical question, clearly the answer is yes)

I know I'm not the only neurotic, overachieving med school applicant who could honestly answer the biggest weakness question this way.
 
The thing is, perfectionism actually is my biggest weakness and anyone who knows me will tell you that. I had OCD growing up and while the rituals are gone, the perfectionism remains. It makes me slow at everything and I miss deadlines on a regular basis. So...is it better to be dishonest about my biggest weakness if the honest answer will make everyone roll their eyes and note that I "lack introspection"? (Rhetorical question, clearly the answer is yes)

I know I'm not the only neurotic, overachieving med school applicant who could honestly answer the biggest weakness question this way.

Pick another weakness. You have more than one. This may be your biggest, but generations of applicants trying to make themselves look good have ruined this one for you.
 
I LOVE this! (Seriously, Superman is boring to even read about, who'd want to be him? Though he can fly, and flying is my dream superpower.)

Batman is the best superhero in the DC universe.
 
The thing is, perfectionism actually is my biggest weakness and anyone who knows me will tell you that. I had OCD growing up and while the rituals are gone, the perfectionism remains. It makes me slow at everything and I miss deadlines on a regular basis. So...is it better to be dishonest about my biggest weakness if the honest answer will make everyone roll their eyes and note that I "lack introspection"? (Rhetorical question, clearly the answer is yes)

I know I'm not the only neurotic, overachieving med school applicant who could honestly answer the biggest weakness question this way.

Surely you can find another weakness to talk about.
 
Pick another weakness. You have more than one. This may be your biggest, but generations of applicants trying to make themselves look good have ruined this one for you.
Yup.

I'm just pointing to one reason out of many that this is a bad, bad interview question. But thousands of bloggers have covered this topic before me.
 
Yup.

I'm just pointing to one reason out of many that this is a bad, bad interview question. But thousands of bloggers have covered this topic before me.

Just because most people try to avoid the honest self-assessment the question asks for, doesn't make it a bad question. I've had some very good conversations with applicants based off their response.
 
I rarely ask this question, because I know I'll get a canned answer.

If my colleagues hear the "perfectionist" answer, we put a strike against the interviewee, because perfectionists don't do well in medical school. They try to learn everything and end up learning nothing. They also tend to be poor at team exercises.



Q: "What's your greatest weakness?"

A: "Being a perfectionist ..."

this seems like something safe to say in response to this question, but do interviewers roll their eyes when they hear this response?

What would be another safe (unharmful) weakness to talk about? How do you approach this question?
 
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Just because most people try to avoid the honest self-assessment the question asks for, doesn't make it a bad question. I've had some very good conversations with applicants based off their response.
The problem is not that applicants try to avoid the honest self-assessment. It's that an honest self-assessment is usually the wrong answer, in my case and in many others. So you end up with a canned answer.

I'm sure you've had lots of good conversations with applicants, but I would wager that almost none of them were being completely honest.
 
I rarely ask this question, because I know I'll get a canned answer.

If my colleagues hear the "perfectionist" answer, we put a strike against the interviewee, because perfectionists don't do well in medical school. They try to learn everything and end up learning nothing. They also tend to be poor at team exercises.

...yeah, this part.

I feel like I should combine this thread and the "deficiencies of Ivy League education" threads into one giant rant about the other chief resident I share duties with.
 
No, they burn out. We rarely lose students to burn out, although we do see their grades tank at end of 2nd year. True burnout occurs mostly in people who really didn't want to go to med school.

I am not at all planning on answering this question (if I'm lucky enough to get IIs) in this way, but is this because those types of people tend to burn out? I can see perfectionism leading to people not taking care of themselves well enough/giving themselves enough free time in med school.

I just Google'd some SDN threads and found this nugget:

A great piece of advice was handed down to me during my gen surg rotation by an attending. He said, "Don't ever let the pipe dream of better hours down the road cause you to burn yourself out now. It's a lie. The hours never get better. But you get better at the hours. Focus on ways of maximizing your life now so you aren't in for a rude awakening down the road."
 
The problem is not that applicants try to avoid the honest self-assessment. It's that an honest self-assessment is usually the wrong answer, in my case and in many others. So you end up with a canned answer.

I'm sure you've had lots of good conversations with applicants, but I would wager that almost none of them were being completely honest.

No applicant is 100% honest and open in an interview. This is not a revolutionary bit of news. But it tells me something if you are incapable of doing enough self-reflection to come up with an answer other than "My weakness is that I'm so awesome, it's a drag."
 
No applicant is 100% honest and open in an interview. This is not a revolutionary bit of news. But it tells me something if you are incapable of doing enough self-reflection to come up with an answer other than "My weakness is that I'm so awesome, it's a drag."
I don't think this would indicate that they're incapable of self-reflection. They're just bad at trying to say what they think you want to hear. Which is its own type of fault, and maybe that's worth testing, but you can't gather from such a response that they lack introspection.
 
In fairness, I interview at the residency level. My expectations of what an MS4 should have done in terms of self-assessment, may be less realistic for a college senior.
 
For a medical school interview, would " indecisiveness" be a bad weakness to say? And then elaborate on how you've consciously took methods to start fixing that issue
 
I think the answer would be a bit more thoughtful if you added the details as far as why exactly it's a weakness for you, since perfectionism can be a double edged sword. For example: "I tend to have extremely high expectations for myself, and so sometimes I feel devastated when I do not succeed at something the first time. At times, I can become stressed and even frustrated. It requires a lot of effort for me to consciously fight the temptation to allow this to affect my productivity, but as I've learned more about myself, I've been able to find coping strategies that somewhat mitigate this weakness."
 
a fellow senior resident in my program asked every residency applicant during interviews, "would you rather be Superman or Batman?" ... "that way if they pick Superman, I know they're lazy and want things the easy way"

I seriously wonder about her sometimes.

Is she single? Sounds like my kinda lady! 😛

I used to say that I was too quiet and it made me seem disinterested, but I'm really just waiting to judge or speak until I fully understand an issue. People seemed to be okay with it. However, it seems like the e-gregariousness is out my outlet.
 
How would you feel about the following answers?

1) a health problem ("I have struggled with obesity my entire life and have to spend a lot of effort to maintain a healthy weight through vigorous diet and exercise")
2) a legitimate personal flaw that doesn't reflect very well on the applicant ("Sometimes people say I'm rude/insensitive")
 
Perfectly fine

1) a health problem ("I have struggled with obesity my entire life and have to spend a lot of effort to maintain a healthy weight through vigorous diet and exercise")


"Rude and insensitive" would raise an immediate red flag. Let's face it: with so many quality applicants, why take a risk on someone with an obvious flaw?
2) a legitimate personal flaw that doesn't reflect very well on the applicant ("Sometimes people say I'm rude/insensitive")
 
starting a lot of projects but not always finishing all of them?
not being as healthy as I'd like?
being argumentative (not to a bad or malicious extent - but actively speaking my mind about your beliefs, which can sometimes rub people the wrong way)?
poor fashion sense?
having trouble telling people "no" - not letting people walk all over me - but sometimes compromising my own priorities to help out someone else?

god I could think of a ton of weaknesses I have - none of them I believe would significantly impact success in medical school/as a physician. or at the very least, cast a negative light on myself // throw up a red flag in an interview
 
Perfectly fine

1) a health problem ("I have struggled with obesity my entire life and have to spend a lot of effort to maintain a healthy weight through vigorous diet and exercise")


"Rude and insensitive" would raise an immediate red flag. Let's face it: with so many quality applicants, why take a risk on someone with an obvious flaw?
2) a legitimate personal flaw that doesn't reflect very well on the applicant ("Sometimes people say I'm rude/insensitive")

And this is why that interview question gets answered with "safe" answers.
 
Thanks, Goro. It's time to take some selfies holding up my old size 44s, then!
 
BTW, anyone looking for a creative way to answer this question should ask a ninja about it.

(On the upside, it is 46 minutes shorter than the other video posted in this thread.)


 
This is interesting to me actually because I gave the same response at one of my interviews. I am curious why you think such response implies that an applicant/candidate lacks introspection?

Because it is the low-hanging fruit of answers. It screams, "I don't want to appear less than perfect to you, so I'll attempt to turn a good quality into a 'weakness'." With true self-reflection, I believe anyone can identify an actual weakness and ways to address it. As I stated before, I interview MS4s for residency, not college students for med school. My expectations may be higher than med school interviewers.

I should also note that I do not frame the question as "What is your biggest weakness?" but rather "What is a weakness that you have had to address over the past few years?" That avoids the whole "My perfection is truly my biggest weakness, if I say it's something else I'm being insincere!" scenario above.
 
If you REALLY can't see why the perfectionism answer is a bad idea, you may or may not lack introspection, but you seriously lack perspective.
 
Candidate: Sometimes I can be too honest.

interviewer: I don't really think that's a weakness....

candidate: I don't give a **** what you think!!
 
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The thing is, I have gotten good answers that spark conversation in response to this question. If I was getting only canned answers, I'd probably stop.
I stopped asking this exactly 5.6 years ago. I got one go0d answer and I wanted to stop while I was ahead.
 
No applicant is 100% honest and open in an interview. This is not a revolutionary bit of news. But it tells me something if you are incapable of doing enough self-reflection to come up with an answer other than "My weakness is that I'm so awesome, it's a drag."

Because it is the low-hanging fruit of answers. It screams, "I don't want to appear less than perfect to you, so I'll attempt to turn a good quality into a 'weakness'." With true self-reflection, I believe anyone can identify an actual weakness and ways to address it. As I stated before, I interview MS4s for residency, not college students for med school. My expectations may be higher than med school interviewers.

I should also note that I do not frame the question as "What is your biggest weakness?" but rather "What is a weakness that you have had to address over the past few years?" That avoids the whole "My perfection is truly my biggest weakness, if I say it's something else I'm being insincere!" scenario above.

I think it is probably the case that a lot of people use this as a safe answer (a la "my biggest weakness is that I care about other people so much"). However, someone's greatest "weakness" is a subjective experience. It is dependent on their perception of themself, and this perception is developed over a long history of lived experiences, thoughts, and interactions. Being able to appreciate the subtlety and nuance going on inside an applicant's head is difficult. You are not trained psychoanalysts, nor are you psychics. I think interviewers would do well to check themselves before leaping to conclusions about the introspection or lackthereof of applicants.

That said, all of this could be ameliorated by simply asking more direct questions or simply stating a question that gets at the heart of what you really want. I have been a part of very thoughtful interviews where I was asked questions such as "How are you misunderstood?" or "what is a common weakness that you share with others" or "what three words are you unhappy that people use to describe you". Regardless of what's asked, use follow-up questions. It's your show. I've answered the "what is one of your weaknesses" question in a way that my interviewer didn't like ("I don't like to ask for or acknowledge the need for help") and he simply waved his hand at me and told me to come up with another one. That's fine, it was a genuine answer that actually is one of my greatest weaknesses, but if it's not the kind of discussion he wanted to have, I'm happy to delve further precisely because I have enough introspection that I'm actually quite aware of many of my shortcomings (and what people perceive my strengths to be, and what my actual strengths are, and what people perceive my weaknesses to be, and what I wish my strengths were, and what I project that my strengths are, and what I've worked hard at but do not actually constitute strengths, and how I compensate for them, and how I can't compensate for them, etc etc).

I think it's easy to assume a lot about interviewees--and I hate the canned answers and have conducted plenty of interviews where I suspected the interviewee was giving me one--but to assume certainty on this is dangerous and unfair to applicants. Ask questions that reveal what you want, use follow ups, and accept that you cannot know as much as you think you know. I think interviews can and should be a fun opportunity to learn.
 
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