I'm seeing more adults come in with suspected autism due to tiktoks influence
omg yes. more than once that has happened. They are convinced having ASD is the cause of their woes. And when you tell them it isnt ASD it doesnt go well. Had one tell me that i didnt understand ASD because the criteria was created by white males and females present differently
Yep, had experience with this myself (as a non health care professional) and it is so darn annoying. It's like some people are so attached to their tik tok diagnosis of autism, that it becomes very important to them that they try and slap the same diagnosis on other people as well.
Paraphrased conversation that took place when I was discussing being a formerly gifted child with apparent asynchronous development, with a group of like minded folk.
Random TitTok Autistic - Sounds like you're autistic, you should get tested for that. Here's some links to tik tok reels that I think you'll really relate to.
Me - Look thanks for the info, but I've actually been assessed twice for autism spectrum disorder, once as a child and again as an adult, and I'm not autistic.
Random TitTok Autistic - But you really should get tested by someone who knows what their doing to make sure.
Me - Again, I've been assessed twice, by a specialist paediatrician and by a psychiatrist. Am I supposed to just have endless assessments until I find someone to give me a label that you agree with?
Random TitTok Autistic - Diagnostic criteria has changed over the years, and a lot of paediatricians and psychiatrists are stuck on old ideas of what autism is, so unless you're presenting as a really severe case you can go undiagnosed (cue life story of tik tok reels and realisation of misdiagnosis and blah blah Doctors don't know everything, you need to advocate for yourself, etc etc.)
Me - (straining to maintain patience at this point) Look you seem really attached to your diagnosis, I wish you well with that, but I'm not autistic and I'm not going to pretend otherwise or go shopping around for a diagnosis I don't have.
At that point I back spaced out of the conversation entirely. Nothing like a conversation about one thing getting highjacked by a devotee of diagnosis by tik tok, who's really invested in talking about something else entirely, to frustrate the living daylights out of you. I can only imagine the level of annoyance you guys feel when confronted with a patient who insists that their relating to tik tok reels trumps your diagnostic skills as a medical professional.