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Hi, I'm an incoming veterinary student....I have wanted to be a vet for as long as I can remember....I grew up around a lot of animals....horses, barn cats, dogs etc...I had a wonderful childhood and two loving parents....but I find myself getting very stressed out about how old school they are on taking care of some of the animals, and how unreceptive they are to advice on how to help the animals be safer (mostly my animals, I wouldn't dare criticize what they do with theirs).
Our horses get excellent care....my father would brush his horse's teeth if he could...but when it comes to my barn cats, he refuses to care whether they are closed in the barn at night, or if raccoons or other predators can get in the barn. He insists on feeding our beloved family dog anything he wants...bones, whatever. It was like pulling teeth to get him to agree to have the dog spayed at 9 years old...when she had a pyometra and cysts...and again when I wanted to have her teeth cleaned...so much resistance... I have talked about splintering bones causing problems and barn cats getting mauled until I am blue in the face and it is hurting our relationship. IF it were up to him, the dog would never get HW preventative, or flea preventative, or pain management for her arthritis....I would just like to think at some point...he will actually care what I think about any of this stuff....Im moving several states away from home for vet school and some of my animals are staying behind to be dealt with as he sees fit.....and it is just really getting to me! Any words of wisdom?
Our horses get excellent care....my father would brush his horse's teeth if he could...but when it comes to my barn cats, he refuses to care whether they are closed in the barn at night, or if raccoons or other predators can get in the barn. He insists on feeding our beloved family dog anything he wants...bones, whatever. It was like pulling teeth to get him to agree to have the dog spayed at 9 years old...when she had a pyometra and cysts...and again when I wanted to have her teeth cleaned...so much resistance... I have talked about splintering bones causing problems and barn cats getting mauled until I am blue in the face and it is hurting our relationship. IF it were up to him, the dog would never get HW preventative, or flea preventative, or pain management for her arthritis....I would just like to think at some point...he will actually care what I think about any of this stuff....Im moving several states away from home for vet school and some of my animals are staying behind to be dealt with as he sees fit.....and it is just really getting to me! Any words of wisdom?