Rafa said:
How difficult/easy is it to form friendships (and even dating relationships) with other students in med school compared to how it was in college? Does the shared rigor make it easier, more difficult, or more or less the same?
it's all about YOUR personality. I had a friggin ball during my first two years in med school...i went out ALL the time and had a awesome time, dated, etc. Later on it gets hard. Yes, you can always date your classmates...it's usually not advised...but in my med school alone there were 5 couples that ended up getting married. but if you are thinking of just screwing around, it's ill adviced. BUT THEN AGAIN, if you two can keep it on the DL...then no problems
I think the dating game is waht you make it to be. i mean if you are reallly desparate, dude all you have to do as a guy is tell the chick at the club you are a med student and well hey...it's the golden key into their heart and to their ___.
Friendships. Well that's sorta hard. Your friends in law, B School, and wahtever else are workign and have a heck of a lot more free time. they're out getting drunk,etc and you may be in the library on a friday studying. so...the two of you are on completely different hemispheres when it comes to ppl understanding each other. In terms of making friends in your class...well the first few months every one will be ULTRA nice to each ohter. Later on the 'gunnerism' (cut throatism,etc) may start. WATCH out for it!
People will be like, 'oh i dont study much' and then they end up getting all honors. IT'S BULLS#hIT. ladies/gents let me tell you this...NO ONE JUST WOKE UP and knew this stuff...you have to study! some of us must look at stuff just a few times...others (like me) must work at it for while. whatever they way you study , u definitely have to put int the time.
other thing. I did horrible in the beginning. igot my sh@t together later on and almost honored everything. So....dont let the fact that you fail a test or something get you discouraged. dont be discouraged..and DEFINITELY never commit suicide or something extreme like that. WORK YOUR BUTT of. GET HELP! use other resources. Seriously, i'm not the smartest person at some things...but i put in that time. i bought good review books (ask ppl ahead of you in yoru med school what books are good,etc). ask upper classmen what to study and how they passed. are there old exams/ sample exams to work on.
get a mentor/friend in the upperclass and really ask them how to do well.