I'm posting this message from my husband's account, and am in need of advice.
I am an intern with 2 residents above me, a 2nd year and a 3rd year. Our group has a total of 5 interns, of which, I am the only categorical and the others are TYs.
The 2nd year resident had his first year ICU rotation last month, and was put on as a senior in the ICU this month. I have had many difficulties working with him over the past few weeks, and have scheduled a meeting with him tomorrow so that we may improve communication between us. Him and I have many rotations together during this year, and I have no way of avoiding him.
During my 2nd day on nights, (probably my 5th day as a resident) he went MIA until 4 AM. I paged him 3 times with questions, and got no call back, so ended up spending loads of time on the phone with the pharmacy. He came back at 4 because of a new admit. The same night, we had a surgery that required clearance from us, and he wanted me to look up the clearance parameters. When he came up, he lectured me about not having them ready., I explained that I was still working on the other things that I had paged him about, and hadn't had time - at which point he lectured me for being inefficient. I requested him to manage the clearance, since he had just woken up and knew the parameters. I was still busy handling other orders, but he insisted I look up the parameters, and figure out how to give clearance.
On another occasion, after a code, we needed to put a line into the patient. He had some difficulty with the line and wouldn't let me assist despite multiple requests. He preferred to wait 10-15 minutes for a senior to arrive, get into gown and cap, and then put the line.
Recently, during a code, he insisted on attempting to trach a pt that was awake with labored breathing. I expressed concern a few times that she shouldn't be trached, and may even aspirate if she gags, but he did not change his request or discuss with me after. Many people on the floor were not happy with his call, and one person reported to our attending.
He does not discuss our patients with us before rounds, and often has holes in his story during rounds. If I correct him during rounds or fill in the gaps, he gets upset. If he mentions a treatment protocol that I don't agree with in front of other people and I disagree, he gets upset. I don't have the opportunity to discuss these plans before rounds, because he doesn't discuss the patients with me before rounds start. This, of course, affects pt care. I do believe that I hurt his ego when I do this, but my intentions are purely for understanding and my own education, rather than to undercut him. I want the best for the patient. He has demanded that if I don't agree with something he brings up during rounds, I should approach him later - with evidence. He doesn't tell me why I'm wrong, just that I shouldn't speak when not spoken to.
Today, a consult came by to look at our pt, and she had not had a chance to read the pt's history. I was also new to the case, but had a basic background on the pt. I went to stand next to my senior and the consult in hopes of gaining some insight. While looking at the screen, she asked for some info. He said "ummmm" and started logging into his EMR. I figured he didn't know, either, so tried to help him out by giving her the basic HOPI. He took me aside soon after and said I had no right to speak, and I should just stand and listen. He threatened to not be so nice and polite the next time I speak out of turn.
I realize it is in my best interest to keep my mouth shut and avoid him, but I can't do that for a year. Also, I would like to find a way to improve communications between us so that we may work effectively.
I have superficially mentioned it to my team leader and another senior, but not officially or in depth. Yesterday, I started this conversation with my 3rd year, but I'm afraid to sound like a complainer and not be taken seriously. Or, worse, be taken as someone who causes trouble. Who else should I speak with? Attending/Team Leader/Chiefs/Director??
How do I approach the conversation with my 2nd year senior?
I am an intern with 2 residents above me, a 2nd year and a 3rd year. Our group has a total of 5 interns, of which, I am the only categorical and the others are TYs.
The 2nd year resident had his first year ICU rotation last month, and was put on as a senior in the ICU this month. I have had many difficulties working with him over the past few weeks, and have scheduled a meeting with him tomorrow so that we may improve communication between us. Him and I have many rotations together during this year, and I have no way of avoiding him.
During my 2nd day on nights, (probably my 5th day as a resident) he went MIA until 4 AM. I paged him 3 times with questions, and got no call back, so ended up spending loads of time on the phone with the pharmacy. He came back at 4 because of a new admit. The same night, we had a surgery that required clearance from us, and he wanted me to look up the clearance parameters. When he came up, he lectured me about not having them ready., I explained that I was still working on the other things that I had paged him about, and hadn't had time - at which point he lectured me for being inefficient. I requested him to manage the clearance, since he had just woken up and knew the parameters. I was still busy handling other orders, but he insisted I look up the parameters, and figure out how to give clearance.
On another occasion, after a code, we needed to put a line into the patient. He had some difficulty with the line and wouldn't let me assist despite multiple requests. He preferred to wait 10-15 minutes for a senior to arrive, get into gown and cap, and then put the line.
Recently, during a code, he insisted on attempting to trach a pt that was awake with labored breathing. I expressed concern a few times that she shouldn't be trached, and may even aspirate if she gags, but he did not change his request or discuss with me after. Many people on the floor were not happy with his call, and one person reported to our attending.
He does not discuss our patients with us before rounds, and often has holes in his story during rounds. If I correct him during rounds or fill in the gaps, he gets upset. If he mentions a treatment protocol that I don't agree with in front of other people and I disagree, he gets upset. I don't have the opportunity to discuss these plans before rounds, because he doesn't discuss the patients with me before rounds start. This, of course, affects pt care. I do believe that I hurt his ego when I do this, but my intentions are purely for understanding and my own education, rather than to undercut him. I want the best for the patient. He has demanded that if I don't agree with something he brings up during rounds, I should approach him later - with evidence. He doesn't tell me why I'm wrong, just that I shouldn't speak when not spoken to.
Today, a consult came by to look at our pt, and she had not had a chance to read the pt's history. I was also new to the case, but had a basic background on the pt. I went to stand next to my senior and the consult in hopes of gaining some insight. While looking at the screen, she asked for some info. He said "ummmm" and started logging into his EMR. I figured he didn't know, either, so tried to help him out by giving her the basic HOPI. He took me aside soon after and said I had no right to speak, and I should just stand and listen. He threatened to not be so nice and polite the next time I speak out of turn.
I realize it is in my best interest to keep my mouth shut and avoid him, but I can't do that for a year. Also, I would like to find a way to improve communications between us so that we may work effectively.
I have superficially mentioned it to my team leader and another senior, but not officially or in depth. Yesterday, I started this conversation with my 3rd year, but I'm afraid to sound like a complainer and not be taken seriously. Or, worse, be taken as someone who causes trouble. Who else should I speak with? Attending/Team Leader/Chiefs/Director??
How do I approach the conversation with my 2nd year senior?