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- Sep 19, 2014
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I had an awesome Navy recruiter. Knowledgeable, proactive, always communicating with me... But he left the service just as I was finishing up my HPSP application packet. The new guy they have in replacing him seems like an ok guy, but he doesn't really know what he's doing and what's worse is that instead of just saying "I don't know" or "I'll get back to you" he PRETENDS he knows the answers to my questions. I don't know if that's some weird "cover your ass" habit he's learned from the military, but I have to fact check him on everything.
I've tried to be as nice and diplomatic as possible, but after I (as gently and indirectly as humanly possible) pointed out he was wrong on one point I feel like he doesn't like me very much. He sounds annoyed when I call, doesn't really answer emails..
I'm starting to worry. The other guy was in my corner. This guy seems to not care much plus I think his lack of familiarity with the system is slowing down my application and hurting my chances. For something less important than this I would just be patient and deal with it, but with half a million dollars on the line I don't have a ton of compassion for dealing with the the bruised ego of some new guy who doesn't seem all that motivated to figure things out.
Anyway, sorry for the rant... My packet is basically done and submitted - I think ??? - but I'm not getting much in the way of feedback. Still, it's gotten to this weird, unhealthy, uncommunicative point where like... I want to call for updates, but I also DON'T want to call because I think him hearing from me again is just gonna annoy him more.
Is there anything I can do this late in the game? Should I just wait, stay under the radar, and hope for the best?
I've tried to be as nice and diplomatic as possible, but after I (as gently and indirectly as humanly possible) pointed out he was wrong on one point I feel like he doesn't like me very much. He sounds annoyed when I call, doesn't really answer emails..
I'm starting to worry. The other guy was in my corner. This guy seems to not care much plus I think his lack of familiarity with the system is slowing down my application and hurting my chances. For something less important than this I would just be patient and deal with it, but with half a million dollars on the line I don't have a ton of compassion for dealing with the the bruised ego of some new guy who doesn't seem all that motivated to figure things out.
Anyway, sorry for the rant... My packet is basically done and submitted - I think ??? - but I'm not getting much in the way of feedback. Still, it's gotten to this weird, unhealthy, uncommunicative point where like... I want to call for updates, but I also DON'T want to call because I think him hearing from me again is just gonna annoy him more.
Is there anything I can do this late in the game? Should I just wait, stay under the radar, and hope for the best?