I hadn't planned on it. Residency is a very short time that I have to learn all I can to form a basis for the rest of my career. I would be disappointed if I didn't have to work hard. That said, if I wanted to be in the hospital 80 hrs a week, I might have chosen another specialty. 🙂 In reality, from what I heard from residents and the department average from their presentations- MGH, Stanford, and UW are about the same. BI might have slightly better hours, but it would still be close.
I think I might be struggling with this decision largely for reasons not related to the programs. I really like them all... a lot. But the outside of the hospital stuff is confusing me. My wife and I want to go to the west coast a little more, but both sides of our family are east coast and we have will have a one year old. I am having trouble weighing these differences personally, and therefore trouble deciding with any objectivity. I am happy and feel lucky to have this decision to make... but it isn't easy.